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Author:  Buccaneer [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Is this PUA or AFC?

OK, I'll keep it short this time.

I broke up with a girl in august, cause she said it was all serious, and I just wanted sex. The break up was "good" in the sense that we both had no hard feelings about it and staid friends.

We had some occasional contacts, but last week she send me this text:

"OK, I probably shoudnt do this, but I had to much wine and didn't have sex for just too long, so can you please come over next weekend for a movie and sleep over at my place"

Before I responded I got another text, where she tried to downplay her own action, but persisted in meeting up for sex.

I gave her a phonecall and she was afraid I was going to blow her off, and started warning me that I shouldn't be such a drama queen (WTF LOL). Before I could even say a word.

After a short conversation of teasing she offered me fair and square sex with no strings attached (literally spoken in that terms!).

So I agreed and we're going to meet up in a couple of days.

Downside is, I think this is just a way of getting me back in her life, yet her words were obviously giving me every reason to just do it. To be honest, in the relationship I was kind of over her emotinally, but the sex was good...

So what do you guys think, is this OK for a Pick Up artist, or does this display low value, caus I'm kind of on a two way junction on this one...

Love to hear if someone sailed the same boat. thanx. greetz

Bucc.

Author:  Ezo [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:51 pm ]
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I think that it is up to you.

I would probably go for it unless I had a good reason not to. I mean, as long as she knows whats involved it is ok. I mean just because you agree to have an intimate moment with her you havent promised to marry her.

I have done this and it has gone both bad and good.

Bad case, I got One-itis.
Good case, I made peace with the girl.

So basically dont worry about if it is PUA or AFC, worry about how you are gonna feel afterwards and the problems it may lead to. And if it is worth it...

Author:  Bimm3r [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:50 pm ]
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Would you not do it just because its AFC?

If you want it -> PUA
If you need it -> AFC

Simple, dont overanalyze, if you want sex, go...

PS: Just tell her again and make her confirm that its no strings..

Author:  NeedsMoreFlow [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 2:47 am ]
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Agreed. If you want it and can have it then dive on in my friend. Otherwise just move on to something else.

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