I originally wrote this to the author of the How to get back you ex e-book. (http://www.mediafire.com/?ppg6fdftz5gyfk7). But i thought i would get more help on this forum
.Hi Georg! Sorry my english, i’m from norway(if that’s a good excuse?). Okay, i was just wondering if you could help me a bit here, im going to write about my problem with my girl.
Our problems started when she asked if we could take a break(15.
, she said she was starting to loose her feelings for me, this night i was really sad, and i got a tips about your book (How to get her back for good). And only wanted to get back with her, so i didnt pay so much attention to the 30 first sites in the book. I decided to just let her take contact, she did after a week. She told me that she had tought of me every day. I did hold back my excitement, and tried to act casual and cool. Sooner that week, we hang out and i told her that if our relationship is going to workout, we have to be honest with each other, you have to be more open to me. She agreed. But after this break i didnt really trust her, i was scared of when she was going to drop the bomb. She did(19.9) and i kinda had it coming. Because the night before we had a fight at a party and i topped it all by yelling “get the hell away from me, just go” to her. The next day i hang out with some friends of mine, and they told me that if you were going to save the relationship i had to tell her that i was really sorry, that i love her, and i’m never going to do it again and so on. I didnt know what to do, so figured out that, this was the best solution. I sent her a message, and asked if we could have a talk. She came to me at 19:00. I told her from my heart that i was sorry. Then she said that she didnt think it would work out anymore. She started to cry, i started to cry first when i saw her cry and hugged her. I didnt beg her to stay with me or anything. She said such things that, she lost the spark, and she only wanted me as a friend. I told her that i didnt want her as a friend. She said that it was best i she left, i noded to her. And i walked her outside my house. We hugged eachother a long time, and both she and i, cried several times. She also said that she really loves me, and if it is any problems i could just call her.
I thought for my self, to end the relationship as i started it, and that was to give her a “dry” kiss(when the lips arent wet). I kissed her fast, pulled my head away, she hugged me, and gave me a kiss at the cheek.
I let go off her and turned away and opened the door.
Later she sent me a long message and i answered pretty cold.
Her bestfriend told me that she had comed crying and sobing to her.
I started to read you book again that night, and i thought about which strategy to use to get her back, because i really want her back! But i dont think i fit in with any of the strategies, the nearest must be Limited Contact.
But i dont know how to act around her on school.
Here are some of my conscerns:
-We go to the same school, but we dont have any of the same clases.
-We have to take the same bus on the morning and the evenings.
-She doesnt have a lot of friends so she is hanging out with some of my girlfriends.
-We’re relativley young.
How should i act at school, ignore her, smile at her, be nice to her?
I could really need some help at this one man!
What is the best thing to do in this situation?