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| Author: | thelenzel [ Sun Sep 19, 2010 7:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | So I got mad at my girlfriend. |
Hello guys, I wanted to get some advice on what just happened to me. Today me and my girlfriend were going to go the the amusement park, and just enjoy the day. So I pick her up, and while we're on the car, she's very quiet, I ask her whats wrong and she says nothing, of course I know her and then she tells me. She says that lately her mom hasn't been treating her the way she always treated her, that her mother was acting cold and distant towards her (she fears its because her mom suspects she's not a virgin anymore) ... Anyways, we arrive at the place, and things go OK.. she's a little distant with me, not talking to much, etc... So then I ask her where does she wants to go and she says she doesn't know, I ask if she wants something to eat, she says no, go to the movies, no!! No ! and more no! ... So I ask her "well what do you want to do?" and she says NOTHING!! .... So this is where I get angry and tell her why is she treating me like this, she goes "The problem is not with you .. blaah blaah, just take me home ..." ... So we got back on the car and drove to her home, didn't said a single word on the way, when we got home she just said "take care" and kissed me... So .. I am really mad, I mean, I always treat her like a princess, and she basically treats me like this, I felt really bad, I know she has a problem at home but there's no reason she has to be mad at me for it. So I was planning on sending her a PIN message to her blackberry, but I'm "fuck it, she has to apologize to me" ... She's very proud, and so am I, but even I know that when I screw it up, I should apologize... Its sunday, I'll see her at school monday ... What if she never calls or sends me a message to apologize ?? What should I do ... ? |
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| Author: | Steel654 [ Sun Sep 19, 2010 7:10 am ] |
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Get over it dude, the problem isn't about you. Give her space and let her now you're there if she needs you. She has nothing to apologise for, but if you got mad maybe you do. People get down sometimes, its life. Let her sort it out. |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Sun Sep 19, 2010 7:32 am ] |
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Quote: Get over it dude, the problem isn't about you. Give her space and let her now you're there if she needs you.
I reckon you're right ... Although I dislike that she treated me badly for something that has nothing to do with me ... I think this is a time when she needs me ... Thanks for making me hit the ground... I'll let her know I'm there for her ASAP... I'll leave her a message though she's probably sleeping.
She has nothing to apologise for, but if you got mad maybe you do. People get down sometimes, its life. Let her sort it out. |
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| Author: | Steel654 [ Sun Sep 19, 2010 8:00 am ] |
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I understand man, it can be very annoying when you mean well and someone is cold towards you. But you need to bite your tongue and do your best to understand where she's coming from. I don't mean to be rude at all, I'm just giving you what I believe to be the brutal truth. No point sugar coating it and steering you in the wrong direction, right? Just apologise for snapping, let her know you're there and leave it at that. You getting mad at her will only make her situation more stressful. If she starts actually taking it out on you, then you have every right to be mad and call her on it. But her being passive about it isn't something to get angry over. |
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