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Okay, I'm 18. I haven't been in a serious relationship (whats serious at this age?) since I was 16, I honestly believe I fell in love with this girl, anyway, it didn't work out and we ended up breaking up, 2 years later I've only just got over her and started enjoying being in the company of other girls again. However the thing is, when it comes to the relationship part I just lose interest. I've had several girlfriends in the last couple of months, all of whom I felt attracted to and enjoyed being around before getting with them, but as soon as I get with a girl, its almost as if I switch off to them and begin to resent them because I can't flirt anymore and I become unattractive to them, within a couple of days of getting with them.
Whats wrong with me? Maybe I'm just not cut out to be in a relationship with one girl.
I think we've all been here.Whats wrong with me? Maybe I'm just not cut out to be in a relationship with one girl.
I just turned 20 this year.... And I've been in a serious relationship for 5 months already, which is by far the longest I've stayed with one girl... I did used to go into relationships, but I would last at max 2 months before I got "bored" ... I saw other girls and I wanted to be with them, flirt with them, fuck them. Now its different. Yes, I admit, sometimes I do want to flirt with girls, not to get with them, just because thats my "nature" ... but this time, I'm not "bored" and I actually value the girl and the relationship I'm in.
I guess its just a matter of time, while you try out all the ice cream flavors before choosing a favorite
... Gotta let yourself be with many girls, enjoy so when the right one comes along you'll know what to do