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Author:  openMinded [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 7:12 am ]
Post subject:  How can I reassure girl of my feelings [unique case]
Situation: Girl falls in love with I because she learns that my feelings for her are pure. A while later, I started displaying behaviors of doubt, and consequently she is drifting off.

What do I do now to get her to say yes when I ask her out?

Thanks in advance for any advice.
Author:  Conker [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 11:19 am ]
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She needs to feel a connection, like you will stay around. Initiate casual chats where you talk about fun things but don't set up a date. Get excited about the thigns you both have in common. take an interest in what she is saying and what she's into at the moment. All while being alpha of course. End conversation yourself of course, but mention hanging out again or talking again soon.
Author:  Riqueza [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 2:59 pm ]
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openMinded,
Quote:
I started displaying behaviors of doubt
Do you feel like your feelings for her are pure when you display behaviors of doubt? Seems not very likely to me. I can be wrong though.

It's probably good to work on your inner game in the meanwhile when you try to get her back the way Conker said.

Riqueza.
Author:  openMinded [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 3:34 pm ]
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Quote:
openMinded,
Quote:
I started displaying behaviors of doubt
Do you feel like your feelings for her are pure when you display behaviors of doubt? Seems not very likely to me. I can be wrong though.

It's probably good to work on your inner game in the meanwhile when you try to get her back the way Conker said.

Riqueza.
She thought it was pure and so did I until we both found out that we were both in love with each other and then I starting acting weird.

After finding out that she has liked me too, I felt that everything was too good to be true, so i started doubting her feelings for me which in turn made me doubt my own. And she saw that i was doubting, she started to drift away. And think she started drifting away because she placed her value in "my feelings being pure".

This was what happened.

And yes, I think my feelings are pure. I know i like her, but I just have doubts about her feelings that's all which screwed me over if you are wondering.

In regards to Conker's advice, I have started using that approach. I'm trying to talk to her again and wait until she displays signs that she wants me to ask her out then i am going to do that for sure this time.
Author:  openMinded [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 3:38 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
openMinded,
Quote:
I started displaying behaviors of doubt
Do you feel like your feelings for her are pure when you display behaviors of doubt? Seems not very likely to me. I can be wrong though.

It's probably good to work on your inner game in the meanwhile when you try to get her back the way Conker said.

Riqueza.
I agree about the inner game part. I was working on my inner game by making sense of my feelings these few days. and believing in the feelings.
Author:  Riqueza [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 12:58 pm ]
Post subject: 
openMinded,
Quote:
After finding out that she has liked me too, I felt that everything was too good to be true, so i started doubting her feelings for me which in turn made me doubt my own. And she saw that i was doubting, she started to drift away. And think she started drifting away because she placed her value in "my feelings being pure".

This was what happened.

And yes, I think my feelings are pure. I know i like her, but I just have doubts about her feelings that's all which screwed me over if you are wondering.

In regards to Conker's advice, I have started using that approach. I'm trying to talk to her again and wait until she displays signs that she wants me to ask her out then i am going to do that for sure this time.
I was wrong. Great to see you're stepping it up.

Riqueza.
Author:  openMinded [ Fri Jul 30, 2010 9:43 am ]
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Quote:
openMinded,
Quote:
After finding out that she has liked me too, I felt that everything was too good to be true, so i started doubting her feelings for me which in turn made me doubt my own. And she saw that i was doubting, she started to drift away. And think she started drifting away because she placed her value in "my feelings being pure".

This was what happened.

And yes, I think my feelings are pure. I know i like her, but I just have doubts about her feelings that's all which screwed me over if you are wondering.

In regards to Conker's advice, I have started using that approach. I'm trying to talk to her again and wait until she displays signs that she wants me to ask her out then i am going to do that for sure this time.
I was wrong. Great to see you're stepping it up.

Riqueza.
Heyyy,

No worries, thanks for the help :)
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