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| Author: | Wires [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 12:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | This girl needs some advice |
Hey guys and girls, I'm quite new to the whole pick-up scene and i need help with keeping my guy! Me and my man have been fancied each other for 3 years, been seeing each other for 2years and been in love & dating for a year and a half. The most recent 10months my bf and i were working our relationship long distance as he had to do a gap year in spain for his university course (compulsary). Now he's back we face another 10months from september with him living in Hull, UK and me in London, UK which are about 4hours apart. He tells me he doesn't think he can continue not being with me for that long and wants someone who will be there with him even though we are still very deeply in love that neither of us want to be the one that ends it. Is this a lost cause or is there something I can do to keep him?! Any help would be SO appreciated Thanks Wires x |
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| Author: | phdcasper [ Fri Jul 16, 2010 8:00 pm ] |
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Hi, I dont see why would you brake up if you love each oder. You can manage to visit him or he can come to you on weekend ... or something like that. I had 2 relationships that where based on long distance. This kind of a relationship can lead to very bad stuff, dough. And you can learn a lot about your partner If you 2 are serious about building a future together than i see no reason to brake up, you can always find a solution to get over the distance. Those 10 months will pass quickly. |
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| Author: | 870 [ Fri Jul 16, 2010 9:06 pm ] |
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This guy is being honest with you about his feelings. Deny them and you risk alienating him forever as he will inevitably come to resent you for keeping him tied to this relationship that's obviously not satisfying to him. If, however, you let him go, one of two things will happen. Either A) you'll both realize the relationship wasn't as all-consuming as you thought or B) you'll both realize how much you care for each other and your union will be stronger than ever once you get back together. Neither of these outcomes is inherently bad. The only way to be sure it's love is to let it go and see if it comes back. It may sound cliche, but it's also true. Your boy, 870 |
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