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| Author: | Ezo [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 8:11 pm ] |
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Hey Im going for a walk, probably that direction but Im not sure yet. You seem like good company, feel free to join me, we can walk together. Now lets see how many of you guys understand this... Ezo |
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| Author: | WitandFun [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 10:25 am ] |
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See how things go with a girl, dont get too serious too soon (eg build your life around her), have fun and see where things take you together. Do not worry about past or future!! ???? lol thought i'd attempt it. |
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| Author: | ktime70 [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 1:53 pm ] |
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My "take" is that is how a relationship should work. Your going one way in life, the other person can join you if they want, but neither of you should change your direction (or who you are) for the relationship. |
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| Author: | poet1234 [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 2:55 pm ] |
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Quote: Hey Im going for a walk, probably that direction but Im not sure yet. You seem like good company, feel free to join me, we can walk together.
Erm...day 2 ultimate line ?
Now lets see how many of you guys understand this... Ezo |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 8:06 pm ] |
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Nope, ktime is closest so far... |
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| Author: | General Lamb [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 8:44 pm ] |
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Enjoy the wander and be sure to keep walking once you head off in a different direction |
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| Author: | Mississauga [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 5:59 am ] |
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Quote: Hey Im going for a walk, probably that direction but Im not sure yet. You seem like good company, feel free to join me, we can walk together.
I don't think this necessarily has to be something between lovers. This can be implied for all relationships whether it be with a friend, family, and co-workers etc... It is that simple to create a bond with another person. |
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| Author: | miiiiichael [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 9:19 am ] |
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wow you're like so deep how do you come up with metaphors like that... :/ |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 7:14 pm ] |
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Mississauga man! An excellent point! You are getting closer! |
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| Author: | Mungo [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 7:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This is relationship defined |
Quote: Hey Im going for a walk, probably that direction but Im not sure yet.
I'm heading somewhere in my life, I have a non-definite plan, but it's somewhat open for negotiation.Quote: You seem like good company, feel free to join me, we can walk together.
I like you and I think I'd like to share at least a part of this life journey with you. Tag along! No obligations, though.Also, I think this may serve as an excellent daylight opener. 
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| Author: | Ezo [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 7:56 pm ] |
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Well Mungo... No obligations is not what I am after. Yes the sentence is said in an offhand manner but it is more than that. Thats not what it is about. A relationship will always have obligations, in fact this is one of the obligations that I think is essential for a good relationship. And it is not about, Im going this way and if you dont wanna come along then fuck you. Not at all. And it is not about protecting your freedom to do what you want. This is about the attitude you have towards her, you and the two of you together... Now I have almost said too much... |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 7:14 pm ] |
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Ok you guys didnt get it from the clues... No wonder it isnt obvious, although the world would be better if it was. What I am getting at is this. A relationship is not about two people growing into one unit. It is not about fighting for dominance. It is not about controlling the other one. A relationship is about two (or more) people who decide that the other one is good company. They are better off in his or her company than alone. So they decide to walk beside the other one for a bit. They are both making individual journeys through life, they have different lives but they both consider the other one when it comes to taking out a new direction. If one desperately needs to go left and the other right, they separate. That is a decision. Some people try to force their walking partner to go their way even if it is not the way she wants to go. Not good. Some go with their partner even if it is not the way they wanna go. Not good. Sometimes you meet other people going the same way or crossing paths. Each of the people involved have the right to decide who they wanna go with. Sometimes there is a conflict when both wanna join the same walker. Sometimes people force each other. That is not the way, one hit and the partner runs the other direction. The secret is to let your walking partner walk his or her walk, let her stop to watch the sunset, let her pick some flowers, you may have to wait but in the end, is it worth it to keep the partner? Sometimes your partner has to run to keep up, if she thinks it is worth it she will. But the main point is. You both have to walk your individual paths. If they go side by side its awesome, if they go more or less side by side, it is awesome. If they are completely the same... it is a disaster. Let your partner decide over her own life, she decides to share it with you for as long as she feels that it gives her something. If she doesnt, she will take another path. |
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| Author: | 0AK [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 7:51 am ] |
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This helped me alot thank you Ezo! I'm fairly young so my path in life is just beginning and hopefully the person that is beside me now will keep their own path beside mine in the future. |
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