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| Author: | thelenzel [ Thu Jul 08, 2010 6:31 pm ] |
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Hi all... This may sound like a stupid question but here it goes, I'll lay out the situation. My GF and I started dating 3 months ago, the 1st month she wasn't so sure about it, but now she's totally in love with me (As am I) ... it wasn't until the first month that she put something in her MSN Personal message about loving me. And she kept it there for long time which for her is weird, seeing how she constantly changed quotes in her personal message. Then she removed the quote and just left that she loved me. Then she removed and I asked her like... (Needy) "You don't love me anymore, you removed it.. blah blah" and she put it again in front of me. And it was like that for a while, and then she put some other quote again, and this time I didn't told her anything, and a few days ago she put again that she loved me. Then she just removed it again yesterday... I don't know if this is really a lot I'm "digging into" ... but I mean, she changes it for a reason no? ... Maybe one day she loves me more, or maybe one day she doesn't ... Or maybe I am overreacting, I don't know, guess I'd feel good fi she had something like that she loves me on her Personal Message... What do you guys think ... is this too much of a deal? Am I being ridiculous??? |
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| Author: | Bimm3r [ Thu Jul 08, 2010 7:19 pm ] |
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yes, you are being very ridiculous  !.. Dont think about that shit.. You should just be glad that she wrote that up there.. if she removes it, it doesent mean a thing.. If she starts writing bad things about you.. then there is time to worry. Just enjoy that you got a GF that is inlove with you , and you with her. Enjoy the ride, and dont waste time thinking and thinking.. |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Thu Jul 08, 2010 9:00 pm ] |
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Quote: yes, you are being very ridiculous
Thanks about that..!!.. Dont think about that shit.. You should just be glad that she wrote that up there.. if she removes it, it doesent mean a thing.. If she starts writing bad things about you.. then there is time to worry. Just enjoy that you got a GF that is inlove with you , and you with her. Enjoy the ride, and dont waste time thinking and thinking.. And really it has never happened before like this, I would date someone and not give a shit wether they've updated FB relationship status, or Myspace status, less alone put something on their MSN personal message. I guess, I haven't "felt" this loved in a while, and even the smallest details get me all worked up! And the worst of it, is that I can notice myself become needy. Just today I realized how insecure I'm becoming and how needy. And I don't like it, I mean, she fell in love with the cocky and secure me. She was a virgin (25 year old), she had never said that she "Loved" someone, so I am the first in a lot of aspects, and despite that fact, sometimes I get insecure!! |
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| Author: | Bimm3r [ Thu Jul 08, 2010 9:54 pm ] |
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that is totally normal, everyone goes through it.. you just gotta ask.. Who are you? Are you the cooky guy? Or are you the guy you are now... In a relationship you need to be yourself. IF you are not cocky, dont be cocky. You are in a relationship and you should feel completely free to be who you are. but you must now that being VERY needy can destroy a relationship. You are very lucky to have such a girl... Dont be afraid to go all romantic and sentimental with the words. Say what you wanna say. do what you wanna do. Its just important to not overdo things. |
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