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| Author: | Alpha_Man [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 7:47 am ] |
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Let's say that because of many situations involved in your relationship your girlfriend, comes to this conclusion "everything I do is not enough for you". Is this going to make her more attracted to you and the realtionship better(you are the prize, she has to work for you etc.)? Or is this going to ruin the relationship(she feels nothing is enough for you, she is pissed, etc.) I need some advice on this one. Thanks! |
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| Author: | ktime70 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 9:20 am ] |
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It's a negative. it doesn't make you as the prize. it's more "you can't wipe your own arse, why should I" |
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| Author: | poet1234 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 10:09 am ] |
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It doesn't look like much calibration here. Let me give u a small example : So you want to kino a girl, this is what may happen : -you insist too much,you appear needy.yet...in your mind you want to show her you love her -she will give u a small shit test,to see if you really want her.if you are by default reaction ready to withdraw ANYTIME she said no... that isn't good either.she will say you don't care at all.now,you have the mindset where you want to show her you are the prize You feel me ? Balance the both |
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| Author: | Alpha_Man [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 11:52 am ] |
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So the idea I understand from this is that you shouldn't fall into an extreme or the other extreme. So if you are too easy, you will be seen as a low value, needy, desparte etc. On the other way if you are exageration on the other side, being too arogant, nothing is enough for you, being never interested, showing total indiference, etc. she will come to the conclusion that it's imposibile to get you...why even try? It's like in the example with the cat curiosity. Make the cat interested in playing with in object, but don't hide the object because the curiosity will dissapere, but don't let the cat get that object too easy. Balance those 2 aspects. |
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| Author: | Lips_and_Hips [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 3:01 am ] |
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Quote: So the idea I understand from this is that you shouldn't fall into an extreme or the other extreme
Exactly right. Nothing in a relationship should be done to exztremes because this is what will cause problems within the relationship and could lead to the breaking up of it.Quote: Let's say that because of many situations involved in your relationship
If your girlfriend comes to the conclusion that nothing she does is enough for you, she will feel like a lower class citizen and demoralized due to the lack of respect and effort you demonstrate towards her and your relationship. your girlfriend, comes to this conclusion "everything I do is not enough for you". Quote: Is this going to make her more attracted to you and the realtionship better(you are the prize, she has to work for you etc.)?
I don't believe it will make her see you as the prize or make your relationship better. I believe it will make her see you as an overbearing and hard to please wanker and she will probably decide she can't take it anymore. She will feel like she can't make you happy so what's the point in being together. She will probably start resenting you which is unhealthy in relationships. Anyway hope this helps a bit... |
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| Author: | Raphael.Phoenix [ Sat Jul 24, 2010 6:53 pm ] |
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Negative... |
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