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Author:  thelenzel [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Getting intimate

Hi all..
I am 19 years old, I'll be 20 in 2 months.
My question here is...
How to get intimate with a girl when you're living with your parents? I mean, I have my privacy ... obviously, I have my own room, and my dad won't come up if I tell him not to ...
But still... the only times I've brought a girl home, was when my parents were NOT home, hence probably my limited amount of sexual knowledge.
I've been thinking of moving out, and living on my own. At first it sounded appealing, but then thinking about food, water, gas, and all those expenses, it doesn't seem so easy.
I also can't stand my dad's girlfriend, and living with my mom is out of the question.
So the thing is.
How do you get intimate with a girl, even with your parents around ... ? Like me being on my room and they would be downstairs or on their room.
I mean of course I could turn up the radio volume, but just the thought of thinking of bringing a girl home with my parents is not appealing to me. It could be the way I am, that I don't introduce girls to my family, until I know its something more serious.
So the basic topic revolves in around that .. how do you feel getting intimate (having sex) with a girl in your room with your parents in your house.. does it makes you uncomfortable? How do you get around it?
Thanks!

Author:  Solteris [ Sat May 01, 2010 7:14 am ]
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Im in a similar situation and I felt exactly the same way you did. The best way to handle this I believe is just to get comfortable with it. I know it's stupid of me to say but just listen....

Women naturally follow a confidant mans lead, so if you were to bring a girl over to your place and show that your confident bringing her around and that it doesnt phase you, then naturally she'll feel the same way and it wont be a big deal. Say if you snuck this girl through the back door and she bumped into one of your parents, awkward right? Because you've given the impression your parents are obstacles and she'll react as such.

I know it's hard to practice but if you have cool parents, then just say hey im going upstairs with a friend of mine and leave it at that. This situation rides alot on you, if you emit confidence in this situation your parents will probably respect that and give you your space and your girl wont feel nearly as awkward as compared to anything else. Hell, if you pull it off really well, she'll think you do this often and make you look more experienced which is a win-win. Hope I helped a little.

Like being a good PUA, it all starts with the right mind set instead of giving you some Mr. Wizard formula for fucking this girl by turning on the TV or music etc.

Author:  michael1918 [ Sat May 01, 2010 1:52 pm ]
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Why dont you fuck her in the car?

Author:  BackpackJeff [ Mon May 03, 2010 7:30 am ]
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Second, bring her to your house w/o intentions of escilating it or even going to your room. Let the parents get to know her a bit and get confortable with the situation.

Author:  Defiance [ Sat May 08, 2010 6:20 pm ]
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Second, bring her to your house w/o intentions of escilating it or even going to your room. Let the parents get to know her a bit and get confortable with the situation.
Exactly. Start bringing girls home just to "hang out". One thing will lead to another.

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