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Author:  paladien [ Mon Apr 05, 2010 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Posts from people right after a break up should be posted in
Dear Moderator

Referring to some posts of guys who want their ex gf's back right after a break up, Most of those guys post questions and stories here because this relationship section seems most suitable.
I don't want to sound disrespectful in anyway, but I think this section is most suitable as well.

I would like to explain myself; most guys here right after a break up are still in the frame of being still in the relationship. Humans are no computers, we have not got an on and off button for relationships. We need time to get over an emotional break up.
I think it is strange to not post any of these questions here because
Why is it ok to post questions here if you are officially still in a relationship but the emotional relationship is actually over
And why is it not ok to post here if the emotional relationship is still there, but there has been an official break up from the other party

I think people, especially new people, will in the future keep posting those stories here because it seems most logical according to my opinion.
If I am right, then that is more labour intensive for the moderators.

I would like to ask you to allow questions and stories from people right after a break up.
And if you disagree, please send those posts to the correct forum instead of locking them. I know you need to be harsh for a crowd to learn the rules, but please take it into consideration.

Yours Sincerely,
Stekehmrt

PS: I have added a poll for people to vote what they think.
Author:  The_Prophet [ Mon Apr 05, 2010 3:22 pm ]
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Not sure if you should have done this publicly - maybe PM the suggestion to one of the Mods ?

Nevertheless, I am inclined to agree. The Relationships section covers a larger range of topics than the other 'Game' sections, because we discuss every nuance to do with relationships in here.

The posts you're referring to don't necessarily have to be in here, but I personally wouldn't know where to put them if I couldn't put them in here. So I voted 'Yes'.
Author:  Little Panda [ Mon Apr 05, 2010 3:52 pm ]
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I disagree. The relationship section is for people that are in a relationship, obviously. All other problems should be posted in Sticking Points, like they are intended to.

It does not matter if you are "emotionally" engaged or not. You are still not OFFICIALLY in a relationship and that is what this section is all about.
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