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Author:  paladien [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:45 pm ]
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heey dudes !

I need some advice. Im going through hell guys.

My girlfriend broke up with me last week. Some amog with his beta friend are getting to my girlfriend. I know she likes him.
She broke up with me now. But she wanted to keep me as best friends :?
LOL

lol..

I said that was okay, hoping this was just some period she was going through. But after I called her that same night I found out she wanted a relationship with someone else. I broke all contact. I saw her one time, a few days later. She saw I was dieing from my inside. I tried to act normal.

I know who it is, based on her facebook account.

What do I do. Shall I add him to my account, and start a stupid chat with him ?
Like, making friends lol
telling him i fucked her and stuff, that its over now that he can have a go ? :P

lol im trying to be funny. But i dunno what to do.

advice would be helpful. Im shaking literally.
Author:  trixsta [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:50 pm ]
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Why do you have to DO anything? This is the real world, live in it.

If you do what you suggested you'd be a laughing stock (and for good reason).
Author:  R.G. [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:51 pm ]
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Quote:
Why do you have to DO anything? This is the real world, live in it.

If you do what you suggested you'd be a laughing stock (and for good reason).
There's no need to be so harsh, particularly when it's not matched by any degree of constructive help.

When my first ever gf cheated on me 4-6 months in (can't remember now) and I found out, I also shook, literally; didn't think I would care if it ever happened but it hit me bad.

It's a tough situation buddy but you're gonna have to get over it; she's as good as gone. The only way you're going to get her back is to stop chasing her and become an attractive guy again with other gals. Then maybe later down the line she will see you as a new person with new attraction. But that is a long way off.

Right now there is NOTHING AT ALL you can do to get her back. She is GONE and she is about to bang another guy (or two) (or three). It's over, gone, the end, and there's no possible way of reversing it as far as you're concerned.

For now you have to focus on keeping your head down, keeping busy and getting over her. It's like an addiction to say, smoking for example. The sadness and pain and thoughts of her will keep hitting you every day for weeks. Like one-itis in a sense. But you just have to plough through this period. In time you will forget her and laugh at yourself in hindsight for even caring so much.

Best remedy, as always, is to find a new and better girl. Right now you won't think such a girl exists, but if you are wise enough to expose yourself to many of them in field - you will find her, and many hers at that.

Keep truckin big man xx
Author:  casthenova [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:59 pm ]
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Hey,

I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you I can only imagine how shitty you are feeling right now. I hoped that I could offer you some advice to possibly help ease the pain.

1) Feel the pain, stop trying to change it, stop trying to reverse it, stop trying to figure it out, just feel it and let it shit right on your heart. Cry if you have too, sit in bed if you have to. Feel it out so that you don't prolong it.

2) Once you feel it out, realize that this chick is just like any other girl. Maybe you did something to loose her attraction to you, maybe you didn't. Come to terms that you will never know, you will never be on good terms with her, nothing you can do will bring her back to you and you shouldn't even take her back if she came running back because she'll probably just do it again.

3) Move on, focus on yourself, make yourself better every single day and every second. Conquer your fears, insecurities and bring yourself to a constant confidence throughout your life. Then meet other women.

That is the picture perfect remedy right there and you will feel the least amount of pain. I mean really who cares? Is this some insult to your ego is that what hurts the most? You can't convince me that you thought she was the "one" or some other rationalization that you are convincing yourself because you don't want to face the truth. You shouldn't care, you shouldn't be involved, just let it go.

Figure yourself out, commit to yourself. No bitch should ever bring you down like that. Shaking fuck that. She cheats she was just not worth a real man like you should be striving to be. Bad women cheat, a woman who knows your value won't even think about it because she wouldn't want to loose you.

You either didn't have incredible value or she just lost interest. The key is that you won't ever know so just use this as motivation to become the best. Strive to be perfect in everything you do as you see perfection. Use pain as motivation.
Author:  R.G. [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:18 pm ]
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^Good advice Casanova
Author:  Foxtrot 5 [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:47 pm ]
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Fuck her dude. She broke up with you for some shit dude. Break contact with her and move on with your life. Keep busy though, try hard to do well in your hobbys and skills, chill with people, and you'll forget about her.

Don't talk to the guy. Don't talk to her. Maybe after a long while you can be friends again but for now she can't just have you in reserve as a friend/ ex
Author:  Pickup Truck [ Fri Mar 12, 2010 11:36 am ]
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Mate it's a very tough thing to overcome.

The fact you've broke up and a person you trusted has tried to take over.

The thought of you not being as good as your friend is shattering.

The thought of them two alone is shattering.

At the end of the day, theres nothing you can do. Trying to manipulate a decision only digs a bigger hole for you to get out of. The more you talk to her, the more frustrated you get at not being able to have her.

I'm talking from endless experience of shit relationships, where so many have gone wrong; and so many have ruined me for weeks.

You need to stop all contact; do not even acknowledge that she exists for a couple of months, you need to go out.. and find female attention and this way you wont become lonely or let everything get to you. The more feamle attention you get; the sooner it goes away. The sooner it goes away; the less time it takes next time you have a break up. This will then become minimal.

A way i love to get back at girlfriends or friends who have fucked me over is to show them i'm a better person without them. For example; after breaking up with someone recently for reasons unknown to man. I decided to hammer the gym and get a much better body than before. Then i would stop going clubbing for a few weeks and physically become bigger and leaner. Then when you look different, and healthier, and better off, they tend to want to know how.

Another way i look at it is this:

Theres 6 BILLION people on this planet, you have just come out of a relationship with someone locally to you. Someone round the corner if you will. There could be the perfect partner ANYWHERE on this planet and your moaning about a break up with someone who lives ten minutes away from you?

Just something i tend to say to myself when I decide whether or not to get upset :)

Hope this helps dude!

Pickup Truck
Author:  paladien [ Fri Mar 12, 2010 3:49 pm ]
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hahahah

I love your support guys. I'm feeling so much better after I read all of your replies

but dude :P 6 billion ? I mean.. thats 3 billion women right :P and that means.. there are 0.1 * 3 billion hb9's out there :D Jackpot!

anyway I slept almost all day, I was so tired because I barely slept the last week. I have never felt more shitty.

I consider myself lucky because, I do get a lot of female attention ^^
3 days after my ex gf broke up with me, I went clubbing and wanted to take a girl home with me. I did. She is my kinda gf right now. she is hb7/8, intelligent, sweet. LOL I even trust her more than my ex gf.

I actually want to rub this in the face of my ex gf, but I don't cuz I think that would be AFC. She should hear about it via some of her good friends.. and that's kind of hard.. no wait a second :) I have a plan.
Author:  BennyB [ Mon Mar 15, 2010 7:39 am ]
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Rafiel and casthenova have been sayin it perftectly. We ALL have been there and if they haven't they will be. U jus gonna have to learn from it brotha, make sure it don't happen again.
Author:  Stuntman183 [ Tue Mar 16, 2010 11:36 pm ]
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Hey man. Just know one thing - the best revenge is success. I had my gf dump me a day before my bar exam. I thought I failed, and guess what I had passed. Then I stopped talking to her for 2 months and she has been emailing me lately and telling me how much she loved me etc.

Just b/c a woman has been in a LTR, does not mean she has lost what makes her a woman. Just remember, focus on yourself. I'll say it again - success is the sweetest revenge, when it comes to ex gfs.
Author:  Rich69 [ Wed Mar 17, 2010 2:08 pm ]
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casthenova advice is epic cheers mate
Author:  Marc [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 3:10 am ]
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You have got great advises thus far. My only 2 cents would be, why be rude to her or to the guy. Why let her know that you are affected by her actions. Instead, enjoy you life with your new girl and go on living your awesome fun life. Dont bother EVER to take your ex back even if she comes back begging because a relationship once broken is like a mirror, even if you fix it the cracks will always be there.
Author:  dark one [ Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:40 am ]
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Grab your balls and make sure there still there! If they are then I will give you advice that will change your life...tell her she lost the best thing she had and then walk...go out have fun and dont ever ever take her back.

Honestly 9/10 she will come crying back because naturaly people want what they cant have...and you know what you do? tell her no thanks your over her and you dont want a realtionship. Why? because 1# a girl like this loves drama and will do it again, and 2# because she's a bitch who left you...wtf dude? common.

Stop sitting around feeling sorry for your sefl...break ups suck yes but do you have two arms, two legs, a roof over your head and two balls? yes? good then pick your self up and thank the lord for what you have!

There are billions of other women out in the world so go out and have fun! in 3 months you wont even care about this chick trust me!
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