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| Author: | dayghost [ Thu Feb 25, 2010 9:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | All of the sudden my gf is so distant?? |
Its been like almost a month now, but all of the sudden shes been acting all weird lately, she rarely kisses or hugs me whenever she sees me. She hasn't hung out with me in like a week. She barely even talks to me :S Ive even asked her several times about this, she says shes everythings fine. I mean we used to be so into each, now what? I'm guessing its some kinda phase?, she seems to still care about me because she caught me smoking when i'm tryin' to quit, she yells "Are you dumb? Why are you smoking?" Could she be on her period? Should I do something about this? Should I act like nothings going on? |
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| Author: | mbkb24 [ Thu Feb 25, 2010 10:30 pm ] |
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dude, just be a man and ask her "Are you happy in this relationship?, because you've been acting different lately. I think we need to figure out whats wrong because I cannot continue like this.." although her response might be to break up. but it's for the better good. atleast you'll be free and know that she will be happy too. I remember this quote that says "I am coming to terms with the fact that loving someone requires a leap of faith and that a soft landing is never guaranteed." |
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| Author: | Conker [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 2:53 pm ] |
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No, too severe for period IMO. You're losing her interest I'd say. I know one real turn off for a woman is for him to have a vice that he can't kick, it's a weakness and it's very de-moralising for a woman to see their strong man that they are supposed to rely on for support, not putting the effort in to kick that habit. If that's pretty much the only thing she's talked about to you, that's probably what it is. |
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| Author: | MidwestMackn [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 2:36 am ] |
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im telin you either the break up is comin from her or she knows something you did. i had the same problem and it was both haha. |
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| Author: | rossa [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 3:06 am ] |
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this is what happened to me. I'm sorry to tell you but there is a break up coming soon. |
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| Author: | newsreporter guy [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | gf |
Well man I have been there and done that many times before! What u need to do slack up and don't worry! When u ask her if something is wrong it shows weakness on your part. Makes u look like your a clingy person which is a BIG turn off to girls! Another thing to win her heart back is to not ask her what she wants to do on a giving day. Instead u decide and tell her we are going so so to eat tonight so dress nicely. Girls love guys who take control! I hope this helps u man I no how it feels to be in your spot, but if it don't work out there are many girls out there who u can game! Cheers |
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| Author: | czar1 [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 4:21 am ] |
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ya it doesnt look good budy |
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| Author: | BennyB [ Mon Mar 15, 2010 7:43 am ] |
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i agree bro dosen't sound good man, prepare youself for the worst |
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| Author: | BennyB [ Mon Mar 15, 2010 7:43 am ] |
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i agree bro dosen't sound good man, prepare youself for the worst |
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| Author: | Stuntman183 [ Tue Mar 16, 2010 11:40 pm ] |
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Oh boy! Exact same thing happened to me with my law school gf. She started acting super distant for a month or two and when I asked her if "everything as ok" she replied, "yea, everything is fine." Then out of the blue one day - "I don't want to be in this relationship anymore." Prepare yourself for what's coming. |
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| Author: | gotham [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 1:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: All of the sudden my gf is so distant?? |
It's been almost a month. Any updates? |
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| Author: | General Lamb [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 2:23 pm ] |
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Quote: Ive even asked her several times about this, she says shes everythings fine.
Not good, this merely seals the fate. When this happens again you're best acting like nothing is wrong. (and looking for a replacement)Quote: Could she be on her period?
Classic 
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Wed Mar 24, 2010 8:31 pm ] |
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Your relationship is falling apart. There's not much you can do about this... If you keep showing her how worried you are and if you keep asking her what's wrong - you're showing a sign of neediness.. This will ironically speed up the process of the breakup, lol. All you can do is: Do what she does. Don't give a shit and live your life as if she's not fully in it. And most importantly - look for a replacement as soon as possible. This way, if she breaks up with you - you got yourself a shoulder to cry on.... Lol, let me rephrase that: You got a new pussy at your service - and the process of healing will be faster. This is of course, unless your ignorance to the relationship causes enough attraction to miraculously save it. Not likely though. The doomsday is here so you better get ready for it. |
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