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| Author: | Taffy [ Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to get back with your ex: A simple step by step guide |
Hey guys, this step by step method of getting your ex back is pretty useful, and has helped many of my friends regain an old flame. Hope it helps. It is pretty natural, with a little gaming thrown in. The reason for less PU material is simple: it is social circle gaming. You already know this girl very well. Break all contact with her for a few months. This serves a twofold purpose. Firstly, it allows you time to recover and get your head screwed back on. Secondly, it allows her to move on. This is important because you will need to pick her up from scratch. After a few months, allow yourself to run into her. Say hi, and ask her how she is doing. Get a decent chat going and make sure you do not seem romantically interested. Tease her a bit, making her laugh. You used to be her boyfriend; surely you know how to make her laugh? Tell her some stories of what you have been getting up to. Make sure the stories are riddled with DHV's. Tease her some more, then tell her you have lost her number. Then say ‘well actually, I deleted it when we broke up, but I’m past that now. Give me it again and we can catch up.’ There is no sane reason for her to respond negatively. Just make sure you do not seem romantically interested, and watch for IOI's. If she gives them, then great: you are on your way to being able to win your ex back. Call her a few days later and tell her you are going somewhere with a few friends, and she should tag along. Take another of your female friends with you, and try to ignore your ex slightly. Tease her and push her away slightly, whilst flirting softly with your other lady friend. When your ex starts showing signs of jealousy, then you should switch. Flirt a bit with your ex, and then leave pretty quickly. You do not want to convey too much interest if you want to win your ex back. Text her later and tell her you would like to meet up one on one for a proper catch up. Well done. You just won your ex back (if you can take things from here- read other articles for advice on that.) Hope it helped. |
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| Author: | Dizzler [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:17 am ] |
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Everyone do yourself a favor, if you're a pick up artist, and you are trying to get back with your ex, ask yourself three whys.. Why do you want to get back with your ex? Is it because you aren't successful with other women? Do you miss her approval? Her affection? Why did you guys break up? Can you make it work again? Why aren't you happy without her? Are you happy without her? Then address whether or not to get back with her. |
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| Author: | manbearpig0 [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 10:23 am ] |
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Quote: Everyone do yourself a favor, if you're a pick up artist, and you are trying to get back with your ex, ask yourself three whys..
seriously? who gives a shitThen address whether or not to get back with her. this guy put material out to help guys in this situation, let it be. y do u have to down play it. fuck u bitch |
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| Author: | dicerolling [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 7:22 pm ] |
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great advice bro. thankz |
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| Author: | rakeal [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 8:49 pm ] |
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This can work. Easier said than done though |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 10:08 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Everyone do yourself a favor, if you're a pick up artist, and you are trying to get back with your ex, ask yourself three whys..
seriously? who gives a shitThen address whether or not to get back with her. this guy put material out to help guys in this situation, let it be. y do u have to down play it. fuck u bitch |
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| Author: | 870 [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 10:13 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Everyone do yourself a favor, if you're a pick up artist, and you are trying to get back with your ex, ask yourself three whys..
seriously? who gives a shitThen address whether or not to get back with her. this guy put material out to help guys in this situation, let it be. y do u have to down play it. fuck u bitch Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | Kaher [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 5:16 pm ] |
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Thanks for the tips my friend, i'm gonna use it asap |
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| Author: | Danzella [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 3:51 am ] |
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Fucking a girl she absolutely hates worked for meh |
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| Author: | madtiger [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 10:58 pm ] |
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Thanks for the advises |
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| Author: | baltazar [ Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:26 am ] |
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What if she dating another man? Can i get her back? |
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| Author: | Kaher [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 12:02 pm ] |
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Quote: What if she dating another man? Can i get her back?
Probably, but will be harder. You'll have to show to her you're the one she has to choose, and you solve all the issues that made you broke.
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| Author: | Hammerofdawn [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 12:13 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: What if she dating another man? Can i get her back?
Probably, but will be harder. You'll have to show them you're the on she has to choose, and you solve all the issues that made you broke.What you need to do is show your cool with her seeing another guy, don't belittle him, get angry or display any other AFC behaviour as she will defend him. This will most likely her rebound relationship or her way of coping with your breakup. Don't reinforce their relationship but at the same time don't try to purposely tear him down. I don't know if a ‘strawman’ would be effective or even a smart thing to do here, but I would welcome opinions on this technique in this scenario, but I would seek advice from someone with a little more experience than me. Pretty much if she bring him into conversation, just state “oh, that’s great” then change topics to something unrelated, without coming across awkward, chances are she could be shit testing you trying to get you jealous – don’t give her that satisfaction. |
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| Author: | Kaher [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 12:19 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: What if she dating another man? Can i get her back?
Probably, but will be harder. You'll have to show them you're the on she has to choose, and you solve all the issues that made you broke.What you need to do is show your cool with her seeing another guy, don't belittle him, get angry or display any other AFC behaviour as she will defend him. This will most likely her rebound relationship or her way of coping with your breakup. Don't reinforce their relationship but at the same time don't try to purposely tear him down. I don't know if a ‘strawman’ would be effective or even a smart thing to do here, but I would welcome opinions on this technique in this scenario, but I would seek advice from someone with a little more experience than me. Pretty much if she bring him into conversation, just state “oh, that’s great” then change topics to something unrelated, without coming across awkward, chances are she could be shit testing you trying to get you jealous – don’t give her that satisfaction. She has to think : why did i broke with him? we were so good together. |
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| Author: | baltazar [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 12:31 pm ] |
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For now i just let her go, she is seeing with him and maybe fell in love, who knows |
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