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| Author: | Checkfigure1 [ Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to argue less in a relationship |
Instead of trying to win every argument, learn to pick your battles wisely! You can’t always have your way in a healthy relationship. If you always want things your way no matter what, then take a moment to do some serious thinking and ask yourself if all the little things that you are unwilling to be flexible about are more important than your relationship. If you think they are, then do yourself a favor and end the relationship before you waste any more time – both your own and your partner’s. Learn to prioritize your wants, and learn to prioritize your partner’s wants according to his or her desires as well. If something is low on your list but high on your partner’s list, obviously you should let your partner have it. If something is high on your list but low on your partner’s list, then take it. Just make sure you return the favor in the future! Learning how to be flexible and bend some times is much more important than winning every confrontation and always getting what you want – unless you want a breakup or divorce too. This tip may sound simple, but to be actually able to do it requires maturity and discipline – two things that will definitely help keep your relationship a healthy one! |
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| Author: | Conker [ Sun Feb 21, 2010 5:46 am ] |
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Very good. A lot of the time you're too caught up in the way things are that you fail to see the way things could be. A lot better if you make the effort, or a lot worse if you keep fussing about things that don't matter and you lose her. |
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