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Author:  The_Prophet [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Wanting a More Physical Connection
(as this is specifically about Relationships + was something I had trouble with before, wasn't 100% sure if it would be okay here, sorry if it's not)

In a relationship + you want to get more out of it physically.

A lot of the advice on the issue is that you need to SHOW a girl rather than tell her. Through body language, a sexual frame, escalation ..

Is this always the case ? If there's no enough physical connection in a Relationship, how can you raise the issue and show you want more of it ? Like, if you openly say "I want to have sex" they're probably going to say "No." If you then split because of this because you're not getting what you want, you're going to be labelled as "Just wanting sex" or "A player/dickhead/arsehole/etc ..."

So how do you guys go about doing this ? Just let it happen naturally ? Let the physical escalation occur ? What if it's not, and you're not getting what you want (physically) from a Relationship ?

Cheers guys,

Prophet
Author:  guang [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Wanting a More Physical Connection
Quote:
(as this is specifically about Relationships + was something I had trouble with before, wasn't 100% sure if it would be okay here, sorry if it's not)

In a relationship + you want to get more out of it physically.

A lot of the advice on the issue is that you need to SHOW a girl rather than tell her. Through body language, a sexual frame, escalation ..

Is this always the case ? If there's no enough physical connection in a Relationship, how can you raise the issue and show you want more of it ? Like, if you openly say "I want to have sex" they're probably going to say "No." If you then split because of this because you're not getting what you want, you're going to be labelled as "Just wanting sex" or "A player/dickhead/arsehole/etc ..."

So how do you guys go about doing this ? Just let it happen naturally ? Let the physical escalation occur ? What if it's not, and you're not getting what you want (physically) from a Relationship ?

Cheers guys,

Prophet
Kino more. You wouldn't say you want sex, you'd have to build it up to that point, so whilst foreplaying, say something like 'i'll go get a condom'. If you're turning her on a lot beforehand though it's likely she'll ask you if you have a condom, which is basically 'let's have sex'.

That's just my take of the situation, but yeah :wink:
Author:  michael1918 [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 11:37 pm ]
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All about escalating kino.
But in saying that, you MUST make her feel comfortable around you, and comfortable with the things you do with her.

Im not sure if your posting up your concern for your own relationship, or just in general. If for your own, could you elaborate more. eg. is she a virgin? how far have you been? etc etc

Now back to what i was saying. You have to make her feel comfortable with the things you do with her. Run through the bases. Kissing, touching, fingering, you know the deal.
These things are best had naturally. Girls are very emotional, so you must make her realise your something special, that your not just another guy looking for a lay.
If your not getting what you want physically, you must talk with her. (however, be reasonable, you can't be expecting a lay within the first days of dating someone, though it could be the case).
Physical connection is always assumed in a relationship. And if theres something stopping her from doing so, you need to find out why.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:57 pm ]
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don't forget to bang the shit out of her when the opportunity arrives
Author:  ajay2423 [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 10:27 pm ]
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Author:  ajay2423 [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 10:27 pm ]
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Author:  spinstill [ Sat Feb 13, 2010 5:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Wanting a More Physical Connection
Quote:
(as this is specifically about Relationships + was something I had trouble with before, wasn't 100% sure if it would be okay here, sorry if it's not)

In a relationship + you want to get more out of it physically.

A lot of the advice on the issue is that you need to SHOW a girl rather than tell her. Through body language, a sexual frame, escalation ..

Is this always the case ? If there's no enough physical connection in a Relationship, how can you raise the issue and show you want more of it ? Like, if you openly say "I want to have sex" they're probably going to say "No." If you then split because of this because you're not getting what you want, you're going to be labelled as "Just wanting sex" or "A player/dickhead/arsehole/etc ..."

So how do you guys go about doing this ? Just let it happen naturally ? Let the physical escalation occur ? What if it's not, and you're not getting what you want (physically) from a Relationship ?

Cheers guys,

Prophet
people physical reactions generally are the result of there emotions, just let it happen, don't over think things just do what feels right
Author:  Tredecies [ Mon Apr 13, 2015 12:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re:
Quote:
All about escalating kino.
But in saying that, you MUST make her feel comfortable around you, and comfortable with the things you do with her.

Im not sure if your posting up your concern for your own relationship, or just in general. If for your own, could you elaborate more. eg. is she a virgin? how far have you been? etc etc

Now back to what i was saying. You have to make her feel comfortable with the things you do with her. Run through the bases. Kissing, touching, fingering, you know the deal.
These things are best had naturally. Girls are very emotional, so you must make her realise your something special, that your not just another guy looking for a lay.
If your not getting what you want physically, you must talk with her. (however, be reasonable, you can't be expecting a lay within the first days of dating someone, though it could be the case).
Physical connection is always assumed in a relationship. And if theres something stopping her from doing so, you need to find out why.

If enough rapport, kino escalation, and manage a set from LMR for a successful sex, she'll never feel regret the next day as if no doubts or worries from a woman say "I shouldn't have sex because it is wrong." I have concerned about some conservative girls, especially by religion or by past experience, that she is too scared or don't wanna sex. Might probably not ready unless rapporting and seduction would be necessary.
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