This girl im seeing is confusing the shit out of me. shes 17 and is easily an 8, im 20.
We started going out after seeing eachother for a month, that lasted about a week untill she said we are moving too fast and she wanted to go back to dating, so i said fine and froze her out for a while (about 4 days).
Then her friend who i know well asked why i was ignoring her, i said "Im putting in the same effort she is,she never called me either"
We dated again after that, went well etc.... Now she never texts or calls me, i texted her one day thinking i was a wussy to initiate it AGAIN and i got no reply,a day later i was on facebook, seen she was online and i never chatted her as i had already decided to let this girl go, saving myself some emotional trouble.
She messaged me on it saying "hi! i was on this for ages and u never messaged me!" i never apologised,just chatted and assumed i was back in. i text her the next day, no reply until i text 4 hours later "anybody there?
" "she text back saying she was out and drunk. i asked her how she was, she said she was upset erlier but is okay now. so i asumed she wanted me to ask what was wrong so i asked her if she wanted to talk about it, no, shes fine. i said well, if your sure, and i said goodnight as she was out. she just replied "night" which is very abrupt for her.Apologies for the long post guys, but you know the feeling when you think you finally have your game sorted? and then it crashes.
Should i keep freezing her out? or ask her what the hell?