Quote: lol its not about inner game believe me ...
Pickups like sports -if you stop training you become less and less good at this.
Nowadays my toungue is sharp as a knife. Im slick. im at a pickup mindstate.
as soon as I lose that mind state and stop thinkin about how amI goin to fuck every girl I see cuz I have a gf now , I'll lose it , you'll lose it , so as the biggest guys around would. Its not about how good you are. Its just that im in a row for the last few months.
actually i don't believe you, but i see you got your own opinion.
dude you are talking about picking up but im talking about relationships because you have posted in the relationship section, so the first thing i do is talking in a relationship perspective.
maybe i didn't not verbally communicate my point clearly enough.
Look i said you have probably good pickup skills because you have results ... hot girls , however you are afraid when you have a GF your skills will become less.
This mindset will not only sabotage a relationship but it derives from insecurity -- > you are afraid of losing something.
Now you lay emphasis on your pickup skill and that's fine you are number one in your own life, but do realise you can't go into a healthy relationship with a half-headed mindset of '' if i go with her my skills degrade''
second of all ... you are somehow right about the sports-pickup methaphor, if you stop training you get less. However you have a base, an athlete who didn't train for many months will get back to his level faster than someone who is starting out from the start - Because you already have important field experience.
3th of all ... what if your inner game is very sophisticated ? you are so confident that you refuse to believe your game will degrade if you don't game ( when having GF)
Your GF can provide you valuable psychological info on how woman think, the more you will be around woman the more you calibrate and get batter with them.
Therefore being around your GF is a valuable source on developing skills and inner game as long you stick to your own reality to some degree.
you see ... every disadvantage has an advantage.
if you got a hot girl then you got what you want, as i am reading your texts i can only tell you you are probably doubting about having a relationship or having a free sex life. having a GF contributes to your sex life, what is the different between her pussy and another pussy ( both hot girls ). there is no difference - only skill on how to fuck .....
You only lose it when you allow yourself to lose it , if you are thinking you are going to lose it then you are going to lose it -- >until you make a change. Right now the way you are talking i can see you are describing yourself as not-trustworthy in a relationship because you are afraid of losing skills and you want to fuck other girls you are open relationship material.
CONFLICT PROBLEM :
Quote: I feel I can get me any girl I want. Now iv just started a relationship with a new gf.shes pretty hot and I like her a lot, shes great. you already started a relationship ......
Quote: lose it , you'll lose it , so as the biggest guys around would lol so you got the image stuck in your head ..... The biggest guys in the world WONT lose it. Do you think dalai lama will lose it ? do you think nelson mandela will lose it ? dude you are stuck in some reality where you think every big guy will lose it, i didn't lose it and i ain't the biggest, if i don't lose they don't lost''it''.
Quote: Its not about how good you are.
funny because you are contradicting yourself....
and it all derives from insecurity or a hole in your inner game , if you are so secure about yourself and your pickup skills then why do you post onto this board to get confirmation/approval from us ? why don't you go like '' i don't give a fuck.. il get GF and il game other girls without cheating'' you got a question and you don't realise you already got the answer yourself ... go live life dude.
the title of your post :'' i got a new GF and im freaking scared'' says enough
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peace
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