NOTE: For the people who have given me sound advice on my last relationship (my screen name is easily searchable), know that this question is truly from my past a long time ago and not some lame way to get a second opinion about a current situation. Just so you know I'm following your advice
When it comes to trying to reconnect with an ex after a couple of months and you find out (before reconnecting) that she has a new AFC boyfriend, what's your best course of action? Do you reconnect and perform "boyfriend destroyers" or is it best to go my own way until they break up to reconnect?