Girlfriend of almost a month, we're going great.
I text her this morning, no reply.
She came on FB this evening (we were both busy during the afternoon) and after saying hey I said something like:
"Sent you a text this morningg cause I knew I'd be busy all day and wanted to say hi before"
She said she didn't reply because she couldn't be bothered :/
I thought it was rather harsh ... I've done nothing wrong. I brushed it off, acted indifferent, didn't want her to think it had got to me when actually it had.
Then as we were speaking, she turned down my invitation to come to mine tomorrow and it now looks like we won't see each other again before Christmas.
We then discussed her hair as she's talked about changing it. I said she didn't need to, dropped a few compliments, but then as the convo I went on I said things like "Well the no.1 rule is to do what you want so if you want to change it I'm not gonna stop you". Then played it C&F saying I look at her more than she looks at herself so my opinion is vital.
Then she made a comment saying she never listens to anyone else anyway, I know she likes to feel in control. I just replied with "I would never force anyone to listen to me, you do what you want to do at the end of the day". And she was like "Well I hope you hate it".
I've treated the whole conversation as one big shit-test. We went to the next stage on Saturday and now I think she's testing me to see how I'll react to this shit. I read an Article on here - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread ... =squirrels - I think I'm in this 'Active Test' stage. So I played along but didn't go AFC on her, kept it funny, yes I threw in some compliments here and there but also brought up previous Game-related things such as the reading I got off her when Palm Reading (did the Wealth, Life and Retard line routine).
I then went into another routine as she said she was going, telling her that before she went she firstly had to say something along the lines of:
"Do you want to come over tomorrow evening to inspect my hair, that and I need another sneak peak at your guns"
To which I said I would accept the invite, blow her a kiss good night and let her go peacefully.
She said no as expected. Then went to bed with just a 'night x' basically, after I'd tried to say goodnight nicely. Not cool.
What the fuck do I do ? Is this a big test, when talking about her hair she said that she 'gets bored easily'. I ofc threw in lines like "You'll never get bored with me" "I'm too different" "Most guys would have rolled over when they saw your hair (reference to earlier convo) but not me
"Help me, I just need some re-assurance. She has a bit of a History of getting 'bored', but I am determined that my inner game is strong enough to prevent that from happening.
Still, I might be able to salvage this, I just gotta change my approach.