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Author:  trappinu [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 2:19 pm ]
Post subject:  talking to the gf..

Whats up guys, Im 18 and have never really had a girlfriend but now I currently do and am stuck in the gaming stage because that is all I am used to doing..Idk how to talk to her like Im her bf rather than someone trying to game her..i remember her telling me about how her ex-bf who is one of my friends used to talk to her and it made me sick hahah, just too mushy for me..so how do i make her feel special without being mushy and shit? hahah thanks guys

Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 2:40 pm ]
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You dont have to be all cheesy about displaying feelings.

Since she's already your gf,you'd have to tone down game. But like the big wigs of the seduction community would advice:yo cannot turn off game completely and become a wuss,boring and beta.

So yo shouldkeep up some aspects of game:adventure,unpredictability,reward system(reward her when she's good,punish when she's not.

Now to the nitty gritty. I rarely tell my gf that I love her but when I do,its not the heart-felt mushy route. I more display my feelings with a touch of humor."I love you babes"[Then I'd smacc her on her ass playfully with a sly smile]. I would always incorporate the playfulness with the semi-mushy.

You get too mushy,she becomes complacent and lazy and start taking you for granted. So,keep it playful. Keep the romance playful and not heart felt. Keep her on edge as to how you realy feel.

Playful/loving.

Author:  trappinu [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:36 pm ]
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Your probably stuck in gaming phase because you didn't improve your inner game and instead just changed the words you use when talking to girls.
ok, well can you help me then haha?

Author:  Bimm3r [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:03 pm ]
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Don't think that you are, convince yourself..

That's the best advice i can give you...

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