so a few weeks ago i met a chick at school (we're both seniors in HS) and i got her
number. we hung out a couple times and she told me i am one of the coolest ppl
she has ever met. we hung out some more, and we went reasonably far a few
times (not sex, just some half nude fun in my bed
. We've still been seeingeach other a bit.
Here's where things get slightly less warm. Last Saturday was a good night with
her for the most part, except the end. we ended up hangin at my bud's house
playing video games, and for whatever reason (i really can't put a finger on why
i did this) i just acted slightly annoyed with her. She would text me in the middle
of a game saying "haha don't look so angry" (she was sitting next to me) and i
just gave short replies "ha ok." So dropped her off, and after i left she texted me
asking if she did something wrong. i just reassured her and said i just had some
strange thoughts going thru my head. things seemed fine.
Sunday, she seemed a bit more indifferent towards me thru texts (initiating with
me less, short answers, etc.) and it was like that up til tuesday where we talked
about "us" as a relationship in the school parking lot. she said she likes me a lot
but just doesnt know if she is ready for a relationship and she felt bad. I was cool
about it and left to the gym. My friend (her ex) informed me that she cried all the
way home after we talked. Sine then, things have been the same... we dont text
quite as much and she seems slightly less warm to me lately.
...The only things i can think i did wrong are maybe acting annoyed with her
Saturday, and maybe being a bit predictable. Also maybe not pulling the trigger
for sex, even tho we were sorta logistically restricted both times.
What do you guys reccomend i do here? I know i have a case of oneitis i dont deny
that. But i would like this girl please. I plan on gaming some other girl just to
ease my emotions. I have thought of a few options i could do... A) just chill out and
keep momentum going between us... B) tell her how i really feel about her, but
then suddenly tell her we should just be friends. Thats all i can really think of...
please help!