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| Author: | Mortal [ Mon Dec 14, 2009 6:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Facebook Confrontation - Should I be worried? |
Don't know if I'm having posttraumatic relationship syndrome, or if this situation is even worth confronting. I've been dating this girl for a solid month, and we tend to see each other a few times a week. From knowledge of mutual friends, and my experiences with her I am certain she is a good type of girl who is respectful of a monogamous relationship. Although, this ideolgy of her is being conflicted by a posting from on facebook. For those familier with facebook, her relationship status clearly states we are dating. This guy posted on her wall to a status that said she was stressing over school. He started by calling her baby and said he would there next week to comfort her, and she replied by saying "thanks darling haha". I do not know this guy, and I'm assuming he is a friend and more likely it could be just friendly joking. I know I should remain alpha and show that I have higher value then him, because I do have instinct to believe I do have much higher value then this guy. Still, I find myself slightly bothered, and I don't know if I should confront her and how I would go about doing so. I really need some firsthand experiance on this one... Thanks for any remarks/comments you can provide, Mortal |
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| Author: | michael1918 [ Mon Dec 14, 2009 7:08 am ] |
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You need to assess the situation better mate. This guy could just be a friend, and shes being friendly Her replying 'thanks darling haha' sounds like a pretty neutral response. It doesnt really instigate anything, it could just be a polite reply being friendly etc. You should never over-think about things said via internet. The point can be easily lost in translation. If your worried about something happening, dont. It sounds like a very insignificant gesture. I mean, what else could she say (staying friendly). Its not that big of a deal. However, if its eating you up, dont keep it to yourself, ask her.. but casually. You need to ask her in a casual manner, to let her know its not a big deal and your just curious. ----------------------------------------------- Addressing your thought on you having "posttraumatic relationship syndrome", you might not be far off. Im not sure how your last relationship turned out but i DO relationships do have the potential to change people. They have the potential to make them stronger, more of a man, more of a bitch, overlyworried, overprotective etc. In your case you might just be worried on losing the girl. I got this from you saying that shes a good girl whos respectful of monogamous relationships. Something as simple as facebook got you worried. Relationships should be based on trust buddy. Make sure you pick one whom is very trustworthy. Learn to trust the girl if you believe she should be trusted, youll live a happier and healthier relationship that way |
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| Author: | _Illusionist_ [ Mon Dec 14, 2009 6:28 pm ] |
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lol.. at the end of the day.. Quote: her relationship status clearly states we are dating.
Thats all that matters.for all you know, this guys is a close family friend..or even gay. Stop freaking out over little things.. Michael hit it right on the head! |
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| Author: | Mortal [ Tue Dec 15, 2009 12:56 am ] |
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Thanks for the reassurance guys. I wasn't freaking out, but still a bit worried of what I should do. I'll let it be.. I guess it doesnt help when I told my friend the situation and he said he'd freak out. Stay Alpha. Thanks, Mortal |
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