First you need to remember why she chose you in the first place... If you stop being that person six months down the road she will say something like 'You're not the same person as when we first met, etc.' or 'You have changed'.
This is a problem among PUA getting into relationships and it normally has a bad ending (meaning break-up).
The only suggestion I have for you is continue 'dating' your girlfriend. This is a lifelong endeavor. And by dating, that means you continue to do all the things and be the person that made her attracted to you in the first place. Maybe not as often but you should still make an honest effort to do it occasionally.
And above all else, talk to her. Remember you are not only her lover you are also her best friend (not the same as the 'Friend Zone' friend but you get it).
I admit, its hard work but then again nobody said it would be easy. In time you will be happy that you made that decision.
And if she asks you again 'What if things get boring between us' the correct response should have been "it will never be boring with you"...she is looking at you for reassurance and for you to fix things when things go awry. So man up, remember, you are still in control of the situation. If you don't then you will fail.
Best,
J-Dub
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