Hey,
well, I'm new to this forum, even though I have been around this kind of information some time.
Without bragging
, I would like to introduce myself: mid-30s, multi-lingual, quite traveled, full of funny stories, interesting, can be serious, hold a PhD, but am also outgoing, social, musician, writer and (maybe too?) sweet to the ladies. On the other hand, I am also soft around the edges (20 lbs), and not exactly what you call super-duper hot, even though I keep this aura of mysterious intellectual guy around me.
Now, I am really good when it comes to opening, introducing myself, charming, even getting into plenty of physical... but I really stink in keeping it up over an extended period. Usually after a few mails after the first night, I become clingy, less cocky and even "demanding" (I was just told last night that "I don't know if I can and want to live up to your expectations" from a girl that I got physicial with a month back and kept in contact over the internet).
In my defense, I would have to say that I am ALWAYS attracted to girls with daddy-issues that usually look for a sort of "savior". But the borderline "official" kooky kind, not the sweet kind.
Now, apart from changing my brand of women
, what else do you guys do to keep up the attraction for an extended period of time (even after sex) as well as in relationships? Thanks for the advice,
NuBe