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| Author: | mugman012 [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 3:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to bring up sex |
Hey guys, Looking for advice on what I should do with this girl. We're sophomores in college, hooked up over the summer, about a month ago and now twice this weekend. Nothing farther than fingering her and a (incomplete) hj. She's a great girl, really cute and I like her a lot, possibly thinking about having a relationship with her and I think she feels the same way. Problem is she's very inexperienced, and still a virgin. I reached for a condom this weekend and she stopped me, saying that she'd be "really bad." I'm fine with waiting until she's ready to have sex (to a certain point...), but I'm wondering if/how I should bring up the subject. I don't want to push her to do anything she doesn't want to do...but at the same time sex is obviously important! Thanks for any advice. |
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| Author: | antihero [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 3:13 am ] |
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Could have been a shit test. |
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| Author: | Owinover [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 3:57 am ] |
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She said she'd be "really bad." She didn't say "no." I would recommend escalating as far as possible. LOTS of foreplay. Actually put the condom on. If she says she'd be "really bad", tell her "Let's find out" and penetrate her. If she says no, do a freezeout. To answer your question flat-out, talking to her logically about sex will NOT get you laid. You have to make her want to fuck you by getting her emotions running wild. |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 10:56 am ] |
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consider it a harcore shittest ! Don't freeze her out ... that can really backfire ... instead when she rejects the idea of having sex just stop and don't say anything for 1 minute. grab a chessboard and go play chess with her .... just ignoring her and freezing her out will make the whole situation more awkward. she will feel like you find chess more important than sex with her. '' why does he plays chess over sex with me ? '' even if it's a shit test you extract yourself by not doing anything but playing chess with her ( not complying or not taking the test ) |
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