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Author:  dasani [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:31 am ]
Post subject:  Girl I'm Dating, Goldigger?
This girl i'm dating says that she expects even her guy friends to treat everything. She also says that if the guy doesn't treat everything on a date, then it isn't considered a date. For emphasis, she expects this kind of SPAM.

Now, when I asked her out to hang for the first time, which i would consider a date, attraction was big and no this whole money thing never came up. It only came up today, which is a month after. It's been a month and I can't tell if we're in a commitment due to certain circumstances. However, I can't tell if this is a test to see if I will actually treat her to everything or not. This is ridiculous to me.

What I want is an opinion on some ways to knock her off her high horse.
Author:  joben [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:41 pm ]
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Joke about it! I forget where I heard this from, but it was on a show..

Some girl was talking to a guy and said she expects a guy to spend X amount of dollars on jewelry for her, and the guy just got confused as if he was actually thinking about it.

Turn it around! Say "That's it? I want my girl wearing a rock that covers her whole finger!"

If shes hot, you'll get shit tested constantly. But the more time you spend together, hopefully you'll get to know her better and always sense the shit coming. Heck I shit test my girl just for fun just to see how they like it :P. "Soooo, drinks are on you tonight right?". It's awesome when they say yes!
Author:  dasani [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 2:52 am ]
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Alright thanks. I suppose I still need to work on seeing shit tests coming.
Author:  vizzy [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 8:58 am ]
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I agree, don't take it seriously.
When she say's that to you, you say "oh wow, we're going to have a MAJOR problem here, because I expect EVERY girl that I'm dating to pay for EVERYTHING when she's seeing me"

Even turn it around on her a bit so just joke like "yeah I guess you can say I'm a gold digger...I want girls to pay for my drinks at the club, and if they don't buy me pretty things after 2 months of dating, I consider the relationship OVER!"

lol I like this one: "you be careful now you hear? I really like you...In fact I might have to marry you then divorce you and take you for half"
Author:  Diablos Roche [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 12:59 pm ]
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Oh boy .

Id suggest dump her .

If she's attracted to you enough , money shouldn even come into the picture .

Anyway , good way to recover would be to Neg the shit out of her and role play yourself being a gold digging jackass . Make her laugh . and play propositions bets with her just so she loses all the time and starts paying for her own shit .

In any case , if you dont need her , time to break up buddy .

Plenty of fishes in the sea , And now that they;ve found water on the moon , the odds of finding a chic as hot as her and non materialistic is far more possible thdn you think .

Rockefella ;]
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 4:44 pm ]
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well ... i agree.

she is acting like she's the prize and princess .... she could have 5 fuck buddies al over town- AKA nothing of value - ....

she's not attracted enough - probably

lol when a girl tells me to pay everything ( everything on my expense ) i would ask her ''why ?''.

then i would tell her there are millions of girls why would i treat her so special ?
girls like these feel like they are the prize .. like they are not expendable.

MAKE her feel EXPANDIBLE

after you asked she probably will say some arrogant ego boosting shit about her self ... neg her on that.

like diablos said ; propositions bets are good to


my opinion = i would dump her ... woman who have money issues will always have money issues...

this sounds weird ... but you can neg the shit out of girls like this....
Author:  spinstill [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 2:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl I'm Dating, Goldigger?
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This girl i'm dating says that she expects even her guy friends to treat everything. She also says that if the guy doesn't treat everything on a date, then it isn't considered a date.
I heard a girl say something like that once and I was like "who said this was a date, youre just keeping me company while I have fun" (cocky/funny of course)

Then again even when it's obvious its a date, I don't ever refer to it as a date (at least before I'm in a relationship)

The cool thing about these type of girls is they don't actually expect you to pay for everything, its more of a shit test. So you can use it as a reward system (don't tell her that) she'll have more respect for you.
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