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Author:  gabzlora21 [ Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:06 pm ]
Post subject:  WHEN THEY SAY I LOVE YOU?
Can you guys help me out really quick here :)

Well this is the small problem i've been facing My girl have been telling me I LOVE YOU a lot lately. I know that when you say the same thing over and over again it loses its meaning and thats why ive been really resistant to say it but i do say I LOVE YOU TOO back, because i dont want her to think that i dont.

Is there any ideas of what i can tell her when she says I LOVE YOU, that doesnt include saying the same thing back?
Author:  brary [ Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:57 am ]
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have you noticed how she reacts when you don't say it back?
Author:  gabzlora21 [ Thu Nov 05, 2009 3:52 am ]
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she expects me to say it. she doesnt say it right away but later in the day she mentions how she said it and i didnt say anything back.! I really wouldnt care saying it all day long but i rather save it for more special moments.
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:01 am ]
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Don't just say it because you feel like you have to say it back, say it when you feel it and/or you want to, not because she wants you to.
Author:  gabzlora21 [ Fri Nov 06, 2009 1:47 am ]
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i know that! and i do feel it its not that i dont.
but thanks, im just trying to find something to tell her back that does not include the words i love you too. that would make her feel special
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Fri Nov 06, 2009 1:53 am ]
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I straight up told my gf I wouldnt be saying it all the time for the same reason as you. If you havent told her just do tell her. its not a big deal. I usually end up just giving her kisses!
Author:  SiggE [ Fri Nov 06, 2009 2:03 am ]
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I straight up told my gf I wouldnt be saying it all the time for the same reason as you. If you havent told her just do tell her. its not a big deal. I usually end up just giving her kisses!
I second that! Just tell her that you feel that it loses the meaning if she says it to often... she will respect that point of view!
Author:  TheLaw [ Fri Nov 06, 2009 7:33 am ]
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Instead of saying I love you back, keep gaming and reply with,

"I know" with a cheeky smile ;) works wonders lol

or "I love me too" :lol:
Author:  TheGoldGeneral [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 12:16 am ]
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I straight up told my gf I wouldnt be saying it all the time for the same reason as you. If you havent told her just do tell her. its not a big deal. I usually end up just giving her kisses!
Same thing I did. Worked fine for me. Throwing in humor like the other responder said works too, though it doesn't address the basic issue of her wanting you to say it back.
Author:  redchris37 [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 12:37 am ]
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ya this is kinda like the I miss you, or do you miss me that girls sometimes say. I think that's a good idea to just tell them straight up why your not going to constantly say it.
Author:  Diablos Roche [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 1:05 pm ]
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Say , " I hate you " in a playful way , and start pointing out all her cute lil flaws .

Sign an agreement , have all the documents ready ,

it should look like this

" *Hb name* , would , make *you* dinner , kiss *you* when your sad , etc etc *be creative * "

and

" I , *your name* , would , catch the spiders , hug you all the time , and spank you when you're naughty , etc etc etc * get creative * "


Keep finding fun playful faults in her .

If she fails to keep to the agreement , threaten to "sue" or "punish" her , and at times you can even playfully threaten a break up .

do all this ,

and the " I love yous " should come less frequent and when they do come , they mean a whole new sweet different thing .

Cheers,

Rockefella ;]
Author:  TheGoldGeneral [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 7:49 pm ]
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Say , " I hate you " in a playful way , and start pointing out all her cute lil flaws .

Sign an agreement , have all the documents ready ,

it should look like this

" *Hb name* , would , make *you* dinner , kiss *you* when your sad , etc etc *be creative * "

and

" I , *your name* , would , catch the spiders , hug you all the time , and spank you when you're naughty , etc etc etc * get creative * "


Keep finding fun playful faults in her .

If she fails to keep to the agreement , threaten to "sue" or "punish" her , and at times you can even playfully threaten a break up .

do all this ,

and the " I love yous " should come less frequent and when they do come , they mean a whole new sweet different thing .

Cheers,

Rockefella ;]
That's quite the fun idea. I'm going to do that.
Author:  gabzlora21 [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 7:57 pm ]
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Diablos Roche thanks for that insight i loved it
ill keep it in mind now that me and my gf are going through difficult times and might not even get to use it with her.

however it is still awesome :)
Author:  Libertine Aim [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 9:36 pm ]
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As far, many says to you that you shall hide you'r feelings for her - with humor.
If you feeling like saying it, but don't wan't it to loose it's meaning then just disguiess it - keep you'r cards closed, but not so closed that she cannot get a glimt of them.
Let me explain:

If you use humor or being ironic at the situation you can end up being in a situation where she dosen't think you taking her serious - and that would be a problem.
If you feeling like saying it, say "I'm in love with you" instead.
It is banging if you use it right, bro!!
Be clear that the "I love you"-feeling and the "I'm in love with you"-feeling is different.
When you say "I'm in love with you", she will melt, 'cause it will feel like you'r on ya' honeymoon, where "I love you" feels like you have been married for 20 years.
Save the "I love you" to a time where it's getting REALLY serious (at you'r one year day, if you have to be seperate for a long time or something like that).

I've been saying it to my girl, and figured out that it have helped us being new-in-love for soon a half year.
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