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| Author: | paxis [ Wed Nov 04, 2009 7:50 pm ] |
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Hey guys 2 weeks ago a friend of mine invited me to his birthday party, in which there was a girl who got my eye. I got her number and We talked a little bit by sms, but nothing special. This was on Monday. Thursday the 4 of us lunched together again and we (me and the girl) had a nice chat about college and surf, and when I asked her something about the subject she's studying, she "leaned" into me. I mean, we're side by side, but she "leaned" into me, "to my side", kinoing me. Friday I called her, but she turned off, and sent me a sms telling me she couldn't pick up the call at the time, but she called me some minutes later and she was like, OVER explaining herself for not picking up the call and etc. I invited her to celebrate Halloween with my friends (which she knows), but she couldn't accept, since her friends and her have already planned something. Over the last 2 days we talked by sms, I teased her a lot, obviously demonstrating I was being playful, using emoticons (like her), we talked about surf and karting (we love it) and all the sensations it brings and then she said: "oh, I thought we were a great singer, but now I see you are instead a great surfer dude" with this emoticon: Ok, by sms it's tough to seize up if it was a shit test (the previous sms from her had both a playful and serious tone, probably because she was studying, and 1 flake), but I took it as one and answered: "yeah, well, what is with them that turns you on so much?" She answered: "I'm sorry, but I didn't unterstand. "them" who? My brain is a little off, since I studied a subject I hate". Anyway, today the 4 of us lunched again with another friend of us. I'm not that interested anymore, but still I thought it'd be good to freeze out just a little bit, in order to see if she's interested or not, so I almost did say nothing to her, except a smile when I first saw her and the last time. Moreover, the was only 1 table and there wasn't enough space for the 5 of us to lunch, so one of us said he was going to lunch in other table, far from the group. I didn't want him to be alone, so I accompanied him. Ok, now the funny party: at our universities we have a system which consists in: the older ones receive the freshman with an event every wednesday. Today all of us did no go to it, and I made up thso excuse "oh, the birth of my brothers is going to be today's afternoon, so I can't go". I said that to my friends, including the girl I'm interested in, all of them laughed, except her. About 30 minutes later she said to us that she had to go home and asked us to say to the older ones at university (all of us are freshman) that she couldn't go, since her niece was about to be born, as in, she was kinda playing with me. I'm, as you can see, kinda AFC, so I'm not sure if this girl is actually somewhat interested or not. What do you think? Btw, i'm sorry for my english and this HUGE wall of text. Cheers! |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Thu Nov 05, 2009 9:09 am ] |
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Yea she is interested and frustrated with your lack of self. You need to be more honesty with yourself and with her. Being honest is super important. Women can see through lies with a radar so powerful it makes superman hide. Work on your inner-game and being more congruent with who you are and what you want. If you really want to get a handle on your life then wake up every morning and write ten sentences. What I want today... What I want today... What I want today... etc... 10 times. Do this at the begining of the morning. You just fill in the rest as it comes to your head. It should take you no more than 4 mins to fill out the 10 questions. Then you will have purpose and direction, and eventually you won't have to lie. |
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| Author: | paxis [ Thu Nov 05, 2009 2:50 pm ] |
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I agree with you partially. The majority of my friends (especially the girls) say that I have a truly great body language, but when it comes to my inner self, I kinda have 2 personalities: I can either be the most funny person in the world to be with or a total average guy. Even yesterday a friend of mine asked me to give him her cell phone number, and I said I'd give it to him after talking with the girl to know if she didn't mind. She answered "you can give him the number. Obviously I teased a little bit with her. Anyway, thank you bro |
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