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| Author: | drock608 [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 2:43 am ] |
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I know initially indifference is key to winning a girl over. But how long after some real chemistry has started can you convert over to being sweet and allow expression of your emotions. |
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| Author: | Gehenna [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 4:12 am ] |
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I would also like an answer to this question. I can be a pretty sensitive person so when PUA say to act like you don't care, that is really hard for me. |
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| Author: | Molson [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 5:20 am ] |
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You should never be more emotional then her. I'm sorry but this shit is true, I know from experience. Keep your emotions in check at all times. It is harder for us than it is for girls. You can be in love and all that shit, just be careful. You can be sweet and sensitive, but this is also an easy way to lose her and she will end up cheating on you with someone more like a man (usually one of those douchefaces). You shouldn't "convert" to someone else during a relationship. What attracted her to you is going to be the same thing that KEEPS the attraction. |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:24 am ] |
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Ok, I can pretty much give you some good advice on this. I had this problem loong ago, even before I knew about The Game... I used to get girls because of physical attraction, but whenever we got into a relationship, it faded because I was very sweet and romantic and writing poems for her all the time, that kind of shit. Not that its wrong! But you should learn to balance. IN her mind, whenever you write poems and do sweet stuff for her you're like "the sweetest boyfriend ever" but if you can't balance that with being confident, alpha, etc... she WILL leave you. You must find the balance between your PUA attitude (Which is pretty much funny, cocky, confident, alpha) and a sweet, romantic cliche side that all girls like (Roses, gifts, little details etc..) You HAVE to show your emotions to her, but don't become a wuss... don't be like "I need you so much in my llife" ... Always be cocky and funny, this will come off as confidence and she will be glad she is with a confident man, that can also be a sweet romantic guy, in fact, she will feel lucky. Even the more, when you're out with her friends, and you're like the soul of the party, you're the one leading the interactions, the one being the leader, the one making everybody laugh, learn some magic and have everyones attention on you, be cocky and funny to her friends, and her own friends will be like shes the lucky girl. Find a balance between sweet and cocky/funny... between alpha and romantic.. The way you say thing counts... you can tell her your feelings like: You know whats awesome?! Whenever I'm with you, its like I feel this goosebumps in my body and my heart beats really fast, its really weird, I've never felt this before! Its fuckin crazy, like my heart is gonna crawl out of my chest! (And exaggerate your body language) throw it in a funny / sweet way ... Its even better when you tell her your true emotions, when you're already with the title as "alpha, confident, funny... etc" ... I hope I made myself clear, you must find the balance between your PUA Attitude (Cocky, funny, confident, alpha) and your sweet and cliche romantic side that every girl likes, basically the Blue Prince... You can watch the TV Series "Californication" ... Its the perfect example of being Cocky and Funny, and still be able to express your emotions! Whenever you're in a relationship, its another level of The Game... you're basically on your own, but the personality that you used to win the girl over, should never change into the opposite ( a complete wuss) ... you should always remain yourself at all times, girls can sense when you're being fake, theyre experts at that. If "yourself" is not funny enough, not confident enough, not alpha enough ... FAKE IT! sooner or later it will become YOU! |
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| Author: | drock608 [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 9:09 pm ] |
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adilinar, youre the man. |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 10:04 pm ] |
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you can be emotional .. it depends how long you have been together. after 1 year or 2 years you can get emotional but don't do it often, woman are much more emotional creatures and are very affected by our problems. balance is bullshit ... its fully normal if you get emotional sometimes - everybody has their boundaries. Just be sure to inform your GF and tell her why you feel bad about it . 90 % of the guys get emotional first and after they tell whats up - we often backward rationalize.... men can be like woman sometimes. it depends on the woman .... some girls are caring and they can bear responsibility.. some woman are arrogant bitches who are impatient and uncapable of caring about someone else. IT also depends on how mature she is ..... You can't be more emotional then her ... this is true and this count for most or our relationships. Relationships are also about fun, when there is too much tension ; woman go ballastic because woman ( and people in general ) first think of all the bad things - second are the good things. often most people USE TOO MUCH NEGATIVE body language OR too much positive body language while venting emotions ( in conversation ) most people don't even realize this. A stable relationship can endure emotions until it becomes unstable, when it's unstable you need to make it stable by investing and not by venting emotions. it's like a bucket full of water ... you need the water to evaporate before you can pour more water into the bucket. if you don't wait thw water will go over the edge....PANIC This subject is more complicated then most people think.... i date a psychologist right now ... she understands me - i even was able to vent my emotions ( i know her 2 weeks ). she just asked about it.... she is very understanding .. it's the person not only the problem. |
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