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| Author: | Chillburg [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Many guys after her |
Hey guys I've been seeing this girl for 4 weeks and we've been 'officially' together for a week now. I've been dealing with a lot of guys who go after her since we started going out/dancing and I dont really mind it that much anymore because I know she likes me a lot. Problem is there are a lot of her male friends (she has a LOT of them) that are all confessing that they are in love with her lately. They do so by text and msn (she tells me about it or shows the messages, thats a good thing, I trust her) But I cant always be around (and dont want to be) to check on her and what guys are saying on messengers to brainwash her or whatever, you know, the games that we all play... I cant blame them, she's gorgeous, but im just annoyed by them...they were friends with her for years just waiting for her to come out of her relationship. Dont really know where i'm going with this, i was just wondering if you guys had any similar experiences and what you did/tell your girlfriend or something.. |
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| Author: | Havok123 [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:12 pm ] |
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This comes down to the very core of attraction. First off, I'm going to very blunt. Have you fucked her? If not, have you gotten spiritual with her? Reason I ask is because a man who has fucked a girl is AUTOMATICALLY and subconsciously (on the womans part) put into a whole new realm of laws, as opposed to her other "male friends". Men and women do not have opposite sex "friends" they would not fuck; unless there is monetary value involved (biz partner, ect) or they are gay. Any woman that you start to date OF VALUE will have what you are experiencing, this is GREAT. This is the opportunity to TRULY TEST YOUR GAME and see for yourself how well your attraction is. Be meticulous but fun with this, find out what makes her want to be with you more and why; I wouldnt recommend asking her that though, if you do, dont take it litterally, women throw you curve balls to test you to see if you are REALLY invovled in her mind and body. This is demonstrated by doing masculine things for her: Helping her overcome any of her fears, helping her achieve her goals/dreams, truly LISTENING when she talks and being fucking fantastic at banter and foreplay.... learn and experience revving a woman up and having her seal the deal on sex... thats very ego satisfying every once in a while. EVEN MORE SO, you wont have to ask questions like this cause you know your woman is head over heals for you. ONE LAST PIECE OF ADVICE: Dont thoroughly trust what she is telling you, learn to read body language and energy... women will say the damnest shit, even in the bedroom and then later "not remember" or not really "meaning" what they said. They get caught in the moments... your job as a man is to CREATE those moments. Welcome to "gaming the same woman" bro. Share what you learn/find! |
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| Author: | menace23x [ Tue Nov 03, 2009 12:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | you the man |
dude if you found her with loads of guys after her....they will be guys always after her because of her personality,but the important thing she is with you....try not to pay attension to it...sometimes you juss have to live things and see where it goes....if i was you', i would rather know if she i was a cheater and move on, you are a PUA see it through,be yourself and don't try to be batter than the other guys...enjoy your relationship...if she brings up things about a guy liking her,change subject and stay away from talkin about it cause if it upsets u she will know and at times it gives the other guy value...anyways enjoy being with her man |
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| Author: | dark one [ Tue Nov 03, 2009 6:57 pm ] |
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She is shit testing you home boy and so far it sounds like you are doing well...She is showing you the msg's to see how solid you are, to see if you are really alpha or weak?, and to see if you will get jealous or not. What would I do? I would laugh and say "wow these guys seem very desperate! It flatering to know so many guys want my gf and then laugh" make it a joke and it will show her you arnt afraid of her running off. Women will always shit test but I find in the first 2-3 months of a relationship it is the worst. If she hangs out with any of the guys who txt he then that is when you need to put you foot down...just tell her you are not ok with her hanging out with these guys when you are not around and that If she doesnt see why it bothers you then perhaps the two of you wont work. she will get the point. Dont worry home boy Im almost 100% positive she is shit testing you...you know why? because I can almost guarantee that the guys she has dated in the past failed this same shit test and that is why she is not with them. Shes hot, other men will hit on her...thats a fact of life but If you are confident and a rock then you hav nothing to worry about. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 12:31 am ] |
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these are some solid suggestions, thanks for the help guys |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 3:04 pm ] |
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dude .. like dark one said .... They are her friends because they failed in the past they have become female friends. Their value is -1000% and they even admit they are in love with her and all that crap hahaha i know you should be worried BUT you shouldn't be. You know why ... they already showed what they want .. they already have told you what they think - you can turn that around. i would be much more worried if i didn't knew. Single male friends are always jealous ... they always will try to sabotage your relationship. TREAT HER SINGLE MALE friends as girls ...... treat them like whores .. really i had so many relationship problems because her (single male )friends were spreading negative information about me, you have to turn it around. you have something they don't have and thats the girl ! lol i got a HB 10 GF now ... i know many guys will hit on her .. BUT do you know how many guys hit on a girl like her every day ? maybe about 20 times , that means your a privilege your special ... you can fuck her , 100000 of guys have failed and among those numbers are her friends. if her friends are messing around .. just laugh and hang back just be sure to fuck her as quick as you can .... i've seen alot of friends sabotaging their relation by waiting too long. like dark one also said ... if she's text messaging with other guys ..... especially on guy in particular you have to put your foot down. I totally agree be swift radical and decisive .... act like julius caesar.. blitzkrieg it over her. if she goes like NO i can txt with anyone i want to ... ok thats fine SO CAN I , don't even defend or attack her at this point. if im in bed with her i will txt message with a girl for 30 minutes, you will see how your GF react the bitch will realize how it feels. |
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| Author: | Wackjacko2001 [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 3:25 pm ] |
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in my experience, any girl that is an 8 and up, this happens all the time. I find they always have these piranha-like male friends whom she will claim are "better friends" than their female friends. Meanwhile, 90% of them are simply trying to game them and once they are single, half of these so-called "guy friends" start confessing their deep-love for them (which btw, in my experience, never ever works). Women like a challenge. Guys who reveal too much interest or their "dying love" intially are usually about as likely to get action as construction workers that holler at her on the street. She might keep them around though, because she likes the attention and having some guy around that boosts their ego. I dont believe in the ability of changing a girl who was a friend into a girlfriend. It has never happened to me at least and I have rarely heard of it working. I have some girls in my circle of friends who have made advances at me but I have always known from day one that they wanted me but I always rejected them. I read through the posts here and for the most part, I couldnt agree more. These are shit tests and you need not worry. I have always found that you should just act indifferent and aloof, like u dont care. She is telling you this stuff to see if you react like a jealous fool. Act secure like you know you have no competition. These losers are not your competition. They dont sound like they have any game at all. |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 5:38 pm ] |
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yeah i agree ... but you will still get frustrated somehow ... too bad you can't control emotion :S.. |
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