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| Author: | D4v1dM4nn [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 7:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Love. The 3 worded A-bomb. How do you feel? |
I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and we are, for the most part, a really happy couple. I havn't let up on my game at all, busting her balls, not playing wussy, and not letting her get out of line/passing her "tests". However we have not yet said the 3 words. "I Love You". I know she feels this way about me - she jokes about it and in silly ways makes it known that she does. She saw a sticker that read "Rawr means I love you in lion" and she told me that she was going to say that to me from now on. And she said it several times over a few days in txt messages and such. She also slips up sometimes and says things like "oh I love you" (after teasing me). But then she will say something like "or I still LIKE you". She I think is afraid to say it and have me not feel the same. I sometimes feel like sayign it but don't want to DLV by showing her that she "has me".. like the cat and a string theory... once the cat has the sting it is no longer interested. Should I tell her somehow or in some way? Or wait for her to get the guts to say it? |
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| Author: | spinstill [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 8:00 am ] |
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I would just wait for her to say it, right now it almost seems like shes testing you and baiting you. Shes not slipping up shes making obvious in hopes you'll say it first, just don't say it first. When she does finally say it and mean it, say it back. girls are retarded and cry if you don't but until the day shes says it first youre good. AFCs would be like OMG shes loves me I should tell her how I feel. you just holding back while shes hinting is good enough, she'll probably keep doing it till hse gets the balls to say it |
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| Author: | TheLastWolf [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 10:10 am ] |
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Eh, if you feel like you want to say I love you go ahead. It does not make you an AFC if you say if first. Also, as a rule never say it after sex! |
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| Author: | Jezebel [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 10:19 am ] |
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Expressing your feelings isn’t AFC at all, exactly the opposite. Jez |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 3:39 pm ] |
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Expressing your feelings, after showing that you're a complete alpha its not AFC; on the contrary ... you demonstrate that youre this alpha male but you love her. SO its good. When in a relationship, really, you're on your own. PUA "tactics" don't extend to the relationship section, on maintaining a good relationship its all up to you. You can ask tips here, but, whenever you go into a relationship, things change. The girl is not how she was when you first picked her up, feelings start to show. A relationship its an emotional part. Its ok to show your feelings, just don't lie. Remember a PUA does not have to lie. Girls are expert in knowing when you're lying when you say you love them. |
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| Author: | Lips_and_Hips [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:47 am ] |
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TELL HER YOU LOVE HER!!!! I have a friend whose boyfriend still hasnt told her he loves her and they have been together for nearly a year. He obviously does. We cant work out why he wont say it and it is so frustrating for her. She doesnt want to say it first because she is scared that maybe he doesnt feel the same way... Also, how would you feel if (God forbid) something happened to you or to her and you never had the chance to tell her how you felt about her?? |
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| Author: | TheLastWolf [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 6:59 am ] |
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Quote: TELL HER YOU LOVE HER!!!!
She should just say it.
I have a friend whose boyfriend still hasnt told her he loves her and they have been together for nearly a year. He obviously does. We cant work out why he wont say it and it is so frustrating for her. She doesnt want to say it first because she is scared that maybe he doesnt feel the same way... Also, how would you feel if (God forbid) something happened to you or to her and you never had the chance to tell her how you felt about her?? |
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