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Author:  thelenzel [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 5:54 pm ]
Post subject:  The difference between a good friend, and a boyfriend?

Hello all.
I've been wondering for a while.
What are the traits on a guy, that separates a friend from a boyfriend?
I mean, sure you can listen to her, but so does her friend, you may be there for her, but so does the friend.
So what are like more specifically, the differences betwee being a boyfriend and a friend, more specific.
How should a guy act in order to not become the friend.

Author:  Little Panda [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 7:19 pm ]
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Boyfriends have more physical contact.

In order to avoid being "just the friend" - you have to kino escalate a lot and most importantly: KISS. If you fail to kiss, you risk to fall in to the friend zone.

Author:  Lips_and_Hips [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 5:37 am ]
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Sorry to be blunt here but the only difference between a good (male) friend and a boyfriend is whether there is physical attraction present. A girl does not want a guy who she is not physically attracted to. I am not saying that you have to look like Brad Pitt in reality, but if she is in love with you, then in her mind, you will be the sexiest thing in the world to her. Just remember that even if it seems a girl has her mind set on you as a mate, things can change and sometimes, there are ways out of the LJBF zone.

Author:  thelenzel [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 8:50 pm ]
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Sorry to be blunt here but the only difference between a good (male) friend and a boyfriend is whether there is physical attraction present. A girl does not want a guy who she is not physically attracted to. I am not saying that you have to look like Brad Pitt in reality, but if she is in love with you, then in her mind, you will be the sexiest thing in the world to her. Just remember that even if it seems a girl has her mind set on you as a mate, things can change and sometimes, there are ways out of the LJBF zone.
I agree with you there, to a certain extent.
I think it STARTS with Physical Attraction, but then it all depends on how you act + the physical attraction...
I have friends that get asked out by their friends, and they say things like "Well, he's handsome, I'm just not attracted to him" ...
And you also see girls with very handsome guys but theyre not attracted to them.
They may find them physically attractive... but not boyfriend material.
So I think its a combination of both .. even though I've seen girls with very fat and ugly guys... who understands them lol!

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