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Author:  foxindirtbox [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 5:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Amazing new relationship, but she is moving away

So, I posted a while ago about struggling to get my oneitis. Well I got her and my feelings have only grown for her. Its so new but I wouldnt be surprised if she was the one for me.

So the status is that we have agreed not to see anyone else but not rush into anything serious. However, as I had a reputation which she hated, it has been me doing all the chasing to get her. Its pretty clear that even though she likes me, I like her a LOT. Usually I think this can be rectified by doing a freezeout and being busy etc, however she is moving to a new city soon. Relocating isnt an issue for me and I would gladly do this for her, but for now Ill just go stay with her occassionally. The question is, should I cool of my attention now and risk her forgetting what is just a new relationship? Or should I keep chasing and risk appearing needy and weirding her out?

As a side note, any advice on creating a solid emotional connection that she wouldnt want to break? Or is it amping up the attraction I need to worry about?

Author:  spinstill [ Mon Oct 19, 2009 9:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Amazing new relationship, but she is moving away

Quote:
So, I posted a while ago about struggling to get my oneitis. Well I got her and my feelings have only grown for her. Its so new but I wouldnt be surprised if she was the one for me.

So the status is that we have agreed not to see anyone else but not rush into anything serious. However, as I had a reputation which she hated, it has been me doing all the chasing to get her. Its pretty clear that even though she likes me, I like her a LOT. Usually I think this can be rectified by doing a freezeout and being busy etc, however she is moving to a new city soon. Relocating isnt an issue for me and I would gladly do this for her, but for now Ill just go stay with her occassionally. The question is, should I cool of my attention now and risk her forgetting what is just a new relationship? Or should I keep chasing and risk appearing needy and weirding her out?

As a side note, any advice on creating a solid emotional connection that she wouldnt want to break? Or is it amping up the attraction I need to worry about?
rule of thumb when a girl says they don't want to rush into anything, it means you haven't built enough comfort or you're trying too hard

just be casual, convenient, and cocky/funny

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