PUA Forum
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/

sarging while in a relationship
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=128&t=53453		 Page 1 of 2
Author:  Jon Paul [ Sat Oct 10, 2009 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  sarging while in a relationship
so am kind of in a relationship at the moment and i was just wondering if people think that its a gud idea practising the game while im with her, even if when i sarg they never lead to kiss or F closes?

Should i just keep sarging so i dnt loose touch with it, if things go wrong with the girl am with at the moment?
Author:  Little Panda [ Sat Oct 10, 2009 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: sarging while in a relationship
Quote:
so am kind of in a relationship at the moment and i was just wondering if people think that its a gud idea practising the game while im with her, even if when i sarg they never lead to kiss or F closes?

Should i just keep sarging so i dnt loose touch with it, if things go wrong with the girl am with at the moment?
I'll answer this one because I just love your profile picture.

Yes - you may keep sarging as much as you want. However, never ever let anything lead to a kiss or sex. Only practise your "social skills", rather than actual sarging.
Author:  Jon Paul [ Sat Oct 10, 2009 6:58 pm ]
Post subject: 
haha,


yer thats what i was thinking, sh*t could get complicated if i took it further, am just gonna work on being more sociabe without going to far

thanks mate
Author:  Lips_and_Hips [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:39 am ]
Post subject: 
My advice is do it if you want to but be very careful about how she feels about it. My boyfriend ran game on other girls up until very recently. I didnt mind though because he always made sure that I knew that he loved me and wanted to be with only me. So just be wary of how she feels about the sarging process and be sure to still run game on her and make her feel good and like you really care about her.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:59 am ]
Post subject: 
If you wanted to keep "gaming" chicks then you should have made your relationship an open one. Pretty much any girl will accept an open relationship if shes attracted to you enough and you present the idea the right way.
Author:  Jon Paul [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:48 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
If you wanted to keep "gaming" chicks then you should have made your relationship an open one. Pretty much any girl will accept an open relationship if shes attracted to you enough and you present the idea the right way.
the thing is she is definatley nt the type of girl who would have an open relationship, and its too far in the relationship to mention that now. any ideas?
Author:  Truncheon [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:05 pm ]
Post subject: 
Keep on sarging for social activities as long as it doesnt conflict with your Relationship(s). :mrgreen:
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:58 pm ]
Post subject: 
i would fuck the shit out of other girls ........:P joking.

Don't ever feel bad or sorry when your girlfriend get's a bit jaleous , you can talk to other people whenever you want to. as long you don't kiss other girls on the mouth or fuck them, it's completely legit.
a jaleous girlfriend is prepared to do more things for you - if you know what i mean , when she feels you can have another girl whenever you want to she will invest like crazy - AKA you are on top of the relationship.
Author:  Jon Paul [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 6:13 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
a jaleous girlfriend is prepared to do more things for you - if you know what i mean , when she feels you can have another girl whenever you want to she will invest like crazy - AKA you are on top of the relationship.
ye ur right i do belive tha, she hates it when i talk to other girls, an recently i have been talking to more girls and shes noticed and has started to get very clingy around me and wanting to see me all the time.
Author:  Havok123 [ Tue Oct 13, 2009 5:43 am ]
Post subject: 
Great thread...

I have been experiencing this for years. I have always been calibrating this aspect of my social life.

You have to wager a few things here.

First of, it depends on what type of woman you are entertaining within a relationship. For instance, the hotter the woman the more orbiters YOU need to have as the relationship progresses for 2 reasons.

1) you dont know how things may plan out, even though a woman says she loves you, we all are educated to know that boys fall for words all the time, be a man, live by principles.

2) pre-selection... consistent

Me and my girlfriend have always been calibrating this aspect of our lives. Been together for 1 year and 3 months now. She knows about the game and has a degree in psychology, we go out TOGETHER and network/socialize. Just as R. Kelly says, "if your game aint tight, dont take your woman to the club". BE COMFORTABLE EVERYWHERE! How do you do that? Practice.

Once again, it all comes down to your desires and the amount of pre-selection you need to produce to keep her attracted. I have gone as far as to pick up a diff woman and invite her to the same social event as my GF without telling either that I was bringing any other people... that was nuts! But it did the trick and let my GF know that I am not a pussy to be walked on and that she is replaceable if she wants to act disrespectful.
Author:  Jon Paul [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 1:54 pm ]
Post subject: 
thanx havok, good advice!
Author:  mattarama [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 2:41 pm ]
Post subject: 
You are in control of your relationship.
You know this. Maybe your girlfriend doesn't, but you should show it through your actions.
It's not that you don't care for her, but it's that you can easily have another girlfriend because of the way you are.

Your girlfriend should know and understand this, therefore she won't dump you over talking to other girls unless she is very insecure. She needs to understand that you're not cheating, you're just having a good time, and if she's cool, she can too.

Don't let a relationship make your skills go weak, you might need them again at any time...Just resist temptation to k-close, f-close. etc, and if you sarge a brave girl she might try and k-close you herself, you need to be wary of that.

Just don't sarge your girlfriend's friends. That is a very bad idea.

You know your girlfriend more than I know her...so she might react bad to this, but I told my girlfriend this, word for word:

her: why do you flirt with so many other girls
me: it's just my personality. you knew that when you decided to go out with me
her: it bothers me.
me: i can't just have guy friends, guys and girls are two different types of people, but you have nothing to worry about. at the end of the day i'm dating you, not those other girls, and you know that.
her: yeah...

if you do happen to say that, just make sure you use the proper words, as if you say things like, "you have me" or, "i'm yours" you make her think she has control of the relationship, and you look needy. you need to still be clear in the relationship that she is with you, not you with her, all while making her see that there is nothing for her to be worried about. also be careful not to aggravate her.


IF YOU CAN'T RESIST TEMPTATION, JUST FORGET ABOUT IT.
Author:  Jon Paul [ Mon Oct 19, 2009 2:40 pm ]
Post subject: 
cheers mate think am gona use this seen as youve had experiance in this area
Author:  TheLastWolf [ Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:17 pm ]
Post subject: 
I dunno about sarging. However, having a conversation to another human being is perfectly ok, even if you are at a bar or club with your girlfriend. In fact, I would encourage it
Author:  Jon Paul [ Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:29 pm ]
Post subject: 
ye i thought that but the only thing is she gets jealous when i talk to other people even her best friends, i think shes really insecure. But i do agree being more sociable even when im with her should keep my skills fresh while im still with her.
Page 1 of 2 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/