There is nothing wrong with starting a conversation, just be cool about it. She seems to be into you, probably the lack of effort on your part is what keeps her hooked.
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| Author: | Marsh [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 4:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girlfriend is away in the week |
Ok so i haven't been with this girl for long but its going really well so far, we get along great but she goes away for uni, and only comes back for weekends. My question is about contacting her while she's away, she texts a lot, but i never initiate the conversation and i think maybe sometimes she feels she's doing it too much and scared that she's being clingy. Should i be more pro-active and start the conversations? and when she does text everyday do i reply straight away or leave it for a while? I don't want to come off as disinterested but at the same time i dont want her to think that im just texting her because she hasn't done it and i can't go a day without any contact. I understand the way i've worded this probably isn't perfect, it isn't as petty as it sounds haha, but i'd appreciate any tips on how much you guys think people in this situation should communicate and if its right to sit back and let her chase it, or to get in touch if she doesn't. Thanks guys |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:12 pm ] |
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There is nothing wrong with starting a conversation, just be cool about it. She seems to be into you, probably the lack of effort on your part is what keeps her hooked.
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| Author: | Jezebel [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:26 pm ] |
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If you feel like texting her then do it. Sure you shouldnt be the puppy but it wont help if you dont pay any attention to her either. Relationships work when there are two people, if you let her do the whole work then is that really a relationship ? She will get sick at a certain point. So be active when you feel you want to be. You need to enjoy whats happening, not to run away from it. Cheers Jez |
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| Author: | Marsh [ Wed Sep 30, 2009 9:47 am ] |
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Thanks guys  i guess i just over thought it really, i really like her and didn't wanna screw it up. I suppose its just about balance. i.e. not getting in touch every 5 minutes but also not completely ignoring her. Thinks seem to be going well anyway. Thanks for the help!
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