Been in a relationship for about 4 months now. We're completely open with each other, which has been great. However, the problem is this... I flat out do not like one of her ex's. They have apparently been friends for about 2 years now, and have dated in the past. He broke up with her for unknown reasons. They still hang out regularly and call each other regularly. (This is weird to me.....)
Last time I was out with this ex and my GF, he said I "looked like an elf"... Well any attempt at trying to befriend him vanished at that point. He didn't get the frame as I played/laughed it off like I wanted to get a part in the Santa Clause 3. During that particular hangout, he also gave her a gift of a small stuffed animal. Looked like it probably came in a happy meal. (This is also weird/creepy to me....)
We've been open about our previous relationships and how they've shaped us. She said she never had sex with this guy, but they came close when they were both drunk and that it was "a funny story".... she didn't elaborate.
Fast forward to last week, I accidentally found her diary in her bookshelf. Curiosity killed the cat, so I read it. The cat is definitely dead.
3 pages started out like,
"I hooked up with... ...I'm still hooking up with... " yadda yadda. Now these were dated before we started seeing each other.
But WTF? In my mind, "hooking up" means sex. Does it not? Why fucking lie, ((unless there was a reason to lie?... i.e. she's cheating, or has feelings for him, or...?))
Do I need to GFTOW?
