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| Author: | Angelz [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 11:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Boy trying to pick up your gf |
OK so this boys is trying to pick up ma gf on FB.... and I seriosly do not kno what to do? She's replying to him - I dont kno whether to be polite or something. So what do i do? Confront her? Ignore it? |
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| Author: | Brendan [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 7:35 am ] |
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what type of things is he saying? |
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| Author: | Angelz [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 3:40 pm ] |
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He says things like " i wish i had a gf like you" " i will take her to this place and that" mostly AFC BS - i dont whether to laugh or frown in disappointment. And she replies with " hmm.." and " you will get a nice gf", " your a nice guy". Oh and today he wrote on her wall asking for her e-mail. I mimicked him and took the piss.... as in i wrote on her wall to saying the exact thing he says but with my name...  .
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| Author: | delsol00000 [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 4:45 pm ] |
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| Author: | Dsm2m2 [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 9:45 pm ] |
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^ Don't do that. As soon as you say something to him you are showing her that he is someone that you are worried about. You can't honestly think that he isn't going to tell her what you said. Brush it off, it seems like he may be hitting on her, but she isn't saying anything back that you need to worry about. She's with you, not him. Keep cool. |
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| Author: | Marc [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 11:10 pm ] |
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Quote: He says things like " i wish i had a gf like you" " i will take her to this place and that" mostly AFC BS - i dont whether to laugh or frown in disappointment. And she replies with " hmm.." and " you will get a nice gf", " your a nice guy".
I think what you did could work !! So how does she know this guy and has she met this guy. How old are the 3 concerned people in here ? Oh and today he wrote on her wall asking for her e-mail. I mimicked him and took the piss.... as in i wrote on her wall to saying the exact thing he says but with my name... .We would be able to help you with some more details. If I were you, I would tell her very subtly, showing no emotions, "who is this looser who begs girls to be his girlfriend. I feel bad for the guy, how do you know such guys?" Dont show that you are affected. But give us more details. |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 3:06 am ] |
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Hold your ground man. Don't confront him or her. See her replies, she's not flirting with him!! You're worrying too much, unless they start to have public cybersex. Be confident of yourself, and trust your girl. |
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| Author: | delsol00000 [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:59 am ] |
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I admit my approach was a bit drastic. I would generally agree with what the othe rposters have said, it's a nagative thing to show your threatened by the guy. I would say do what the other guys said and not worry about it, trust her. However, there may well come a time when perhaps hes still trying to chat her up and flirt with her, if it is an ongoing thing i really would try to be more dominant and show him subtely that iam her man. Its like a dog marking territory. The danger of standing back and acting like it doesnt bother you can also be a mistake in its self. It does depend on what your girl is like though, there are some girls (and in my experience most) that actually prefer you to be a bit more...im trying to find the word....aggressive is the wrong word but u know what i mean. I'd say sand your ground, its not like your threatened by him but its deeply disrespectful to yourself if he knows your her bloke and yet hes still trying. Be strong, lay down the rules. |
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| Author: | V3nu [ Fri Aug 21, 2009 5:46 am ] |
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dude she is sayin he is a nice guy and he will find another gf , it's friend zone! not even an orbiter! just chill, I'm sure he not the only guy who is trying to pick her up, and you if you REALLY feel threatened by his game, contact and tell him straight up and if he tells on you tell your gf that you don't mind guys flirting with her but that guy took it too far... best luck man  V3nu 
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