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Author:  Tianman [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Need some help with my Relationship
Hey, im Luke, im 20 and my girlfriend is 2 months younger than me. We have been going out for 6 months and never had sex.Shes a very innocent person so i never even brought it up to give her a chance to bring it up when shes ready, im new to the game and know now thats probably the wrong way to go about it, but thats why im here, to learn.

it would be great to get some tips on how to keep her interested in me as i am crazy about her and i think i am putting more effort into the relationship than her.

Dont get me wrong, i am a goodlooking guy, i have been told so many times, i i was a one night stand type of guy who never really had a relationship and sort of fell into this one. She is constantly on my mind. Thanks.
Author:  Dsm2m2 [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 11:33 pm ]
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If you think you are putting more into the relationship than she is than back off a little. Mirror her actions. Whatever you do, do not turn into that needy guy who always is the one calling her, texting her, making plans, etc.

Do a little push/pull.

When it comes to sex. Is she a virgin, or has it never escelated that far? 6 months is a long time for a couple to never have sex if they are in a relationship, unless of course she is a virgin. If she isn't then next time things start to heat up go for it. She will stop you if she isn't down I promise.
Author:  Philly B [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 11:59 pm ]
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Shouldn't be too hard to keep things interesting. You've been going for 6 months then you should know by now.

If you feel things are getting stale then do something to spruce it up. Surprise her. Go for a walk in a park and surprise her with a picnic, go for a boat ride, dress up and take her out for a fancy night on the town. Surprises like that are awesome and girls love that because it shows that you are thinking about her and that you care. My gal loves it when I do things like that.
Just don't do it too often or she'll begin to expect it and a surprise isn't something she should expect.

As for the sex thing, just keep escalating until she stops you, then next time you two are getting hot and heavy just keep escalating once more and you should be able to get a step farther, if not, the two steps forward, once step backward strategy works as well. My gal is a virgin as well and I've gotten her comfortable with things this way as well. It may take a while depending on the girl, we're on our fifth month and by doing this I've comfortably advanced her along.

That's about as much as I can say, good luck with it!
Author:  SiNfUl [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 12:24 am ]
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I agree with Dsm2m2, don't turn into a wuss. I don't care how good looking you are, desperation and acting clingy will screw up everything. You have to be the dangerous, mysterious, exciting bad boy she lusts over (even though she may not say it).

Keep this in mind, no girl is innocent. That statement is a load of sh*t. If you can get her IL/attraction level way up, she will do things that will surprise the BOTH of you (sexually).
Author:  Tianman [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:18 am ]
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This is great guys, im gonna lay off her untill she pulls in to me instead, and yea for the record, i am her first boyfriend, and shes definately a virgin, she isnt the one night stand type, altho from what you all say, anything is possible right?no girl is innocent. but when i try to escalate, like kissing her neck, she says stuff like "No, itl leave a mark" and her parents will see it or whatever, and when my hand wanders downstairs, she will just grab it and hold it as if thats what i was trying to do. Do i talk to her about sex? ask her if shes ever done it?
Author:  SiNfUl [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 1:20 pm ]
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No, don't talk about sex or try to initiate it either. Just foucs on having a good time and raising her IL (interest level) and attraction.

The more interest you show in her sexually, the worst off you will be. Women need to think that sex with them is no big deal (which it isn't).

If you show interest in them, but not in a sexual way, it will drive them nuts. This is when their insecurities kick in. Once that happens, you can get them to do whatever you want.
Author:  Tianman [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 1:32 pm ]
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Okay, cool, i have already froze her for the first time and i was shocked with the result. She text me the usual daily text "how are you...what did u do today etc....." and i didnt reply, she text me again about 2 hours later asking if i was ok that she never got a reply, i left it another 2 hours and said i got caught up with the guys at this new shooting range nearby but i didnt apologise. she said she was worried and asked me to take her to the shooting range sometime! thanks again man, cant believe its working so fast.

One thing, you mentioned her interest level. how do i raise her IL?
Author:  SiNfUl [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 1:45 pm ]
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Okay, cool, i have already froze her for the first time and i was shocked with the result. She text me the usual daily text "how are you...what did u do today etc....." and i didnt reply, she text me again about 2 hours later asking if i was ok that she never got a reply, i left it another 2 hours and said i got caught up with the guys at this new shooting range nearby but i didnt apologise. she said she was worried and asked me to take her to the shooting range sometime! thanks again man, cant believe its working so fast.

One thing, you mentioned her interest level. how do i raise her IL?
That's perfect! I gave you a reputation point for following through. :D

How do you raise her IL? You just did! Keep her guessing, wondering what you are doing and who you are with. That is how you keep women interested. Keep it up...
Author:  Tianman [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 1:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Problem Resolved
Thats great man. You wouldnt believe the stress youv saved me, although you probably would right?being a PUA and all :lol: Thanks
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