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| Author: | thelenzel [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 5:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Getting emotionally attached ... |
I love being a PUA, not only because of the picking up girls stuff, but its also fun to "build a life"... There used to be a certain point, when going out with a girl, that I would stop seeing her, to stop myself from being emotionally attached. I was seeing 3 girls ... 2 of them have told me they really like me. I feel they're getting emotionally attached to me, and I feel like I may be emotionally attached also. This is the part I don't like. I don't like giving myself to someone, opening myself, opening my heart. I know relationships can be beautiful, but I'm afraid of getting hurt (I haven't been hurt in a relationship) but the fact that I see friends of mine almost wanting to kill themselves over a girl/guy. For me, a relationship doesn't last more than 2 months. I get bored, or I want another girl. Seeing how I could basically "pick up" any girl. Sometimes I tell to myself, that being in one, long relationship, where I could actually introduce the girl to my family, to my friends, etc... Is anyone on the same boat as me? What can I do? I don't want to be the guy that guys picking up girls just for fun. I actually want a relationship, but I don't like to open myself and expose my heart for it to be hurt... |
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| Author: | Angelz [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 7:05 pm ] |
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At the start where you not scared to approach girls? Afraid you might get rejected and this would hurt you. But you ovcercame this problem and just approached. Similarily I advice to begum just a bit open with the girls you like in particular, how do you know that your releationships are only lasteing 2 month because of your fear of getting hurt. |
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| Author: | WillDream [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 8:57 pm ] |
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Adilinar. If you start a long term relationship, you most likely WILL get hurt. It is even possible you'll get hurt so much that you'll even WANT to kill yourself, like your friends. However, I guarantee, you'll also be happier than ever. Two sides to the same coin. And in my opinion, it is worth the risk, worth the tears. |
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| Author: | Philly B [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 6:20 pm ] |
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Better to have loved and lost.... Either way, maybe you just haven't found the right girl yet. They may be into you but you haven't found a girl that you don't think is worth a LTR. Just keep looking and try to find one who you think is worth putting your emotions on the line. |
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