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Author:  SheddingMyAFC [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 7:59 am ]
Post subject:  Not a fan of going to Bars and Clubs with g/f
One thing that I just don't like doing when I'm in a relationship is going to a bar or club with my g/f. It's not that I'm insecure of other guys or anything but it just seems the fun has been taken out of it when you go with a girlfriend. I think it's because for so long I chose to be single and enjoyed the adventure of trying to pick up other woman but now that I'm in a relationship the fun of going to a bar/club is not as high as it used to be. When I was single I LOVED going to bars and night clubs because the potential to meet a new woman was always there but now I'm just kind of like..meh. Has anyone else ever felt this way?
Author:  donnie88 [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 11:42 am ]
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Yeah I felt the same way when I went to a few clubs, even the one where I picked her up from. Well, this girl is an ex-girlfriend now anyway.

With my current girlfriend though, she called me clubbing with her but I didn't go. However I like going to chilled out bars with her, but she rarely wants to do that with me because she doesn't "trust herself" when she's drunk with me. *Bangs head*
Author:  Jake30001 [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 12:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Not a fan of going to Bars and Clubs with g/f
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One thing that I just don't like doing when I'm in a relationship is going to a bar or club with my g/f. It's not that I'm insecure of other guys or anything but it just seems the fun has been taken out of it when you go with a girlfriend. I think it's because for so long I chose to be single and enjoyed the adventure of trying to pick up other woman but now that I'm in a relationship the fun of going to a bar/club is not as high as it used to be. When I was single I LOVED going to bars and night clubs because the potential to meet a new woman was always there but now I'm just kind of like..meh. Has anyone else ever felt this way?
Im the same way. Its weird. Before I meet the right girl, I am pretty much a party animal. I hit the clubs and love partying. I am the "party guy"

Then, I find the right girl. Every girl I have dated is sort of the same. I meet them at a club and then, we get in this romantic phase and we hang out alot. We club together a little bit - not like crazy. She wants out and I want out. I dont like doing it so much but I only like it becuase (it sounds arrogant/horrible) to show off the hot chick I scored to my friends.

Then, later, for some reason, she wants to go out clubbing more at some point. I dont even understand why. I dont even care for the scene anymore in the slightest.

Two reasons I dont like clubbing:
(1) I have to witness all these aggressive guys hitting on her (Not insecure in the slightest ,but it is annoying)
(2) I guess, I must admit that I enjoy clubbing simply for the prospect of meeting new women. Otherwise, the place just looks like an annoying place to spend a Friday night
Author:  Conker [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 2:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Not a fan of going to Bars and Clubs with g/f
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I guess, I must admit that I enjoy clubbing simply for the prospect of meeting new women. Otherwise, the place just looks like an annoying place to spend a Friday night
Pretty much sums it up for me :)
Author:  turnofclass [ Sun Jul 26, 2009 8:35 pm ]
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totally agree. I used to get the most out of nights out when I was single, getting laid and being a fun social guy. More recently the urge to go out has pretty much gone - in a LTR and have a baby.

One thing to point out though is when you do go out, say with pals, you notice other hot chicks giving you IOI's and it does make you wonder if you're doing the right thing.

I won't cheet on her because that's not cool - the other women look hot still!
Author:  gamer_nl [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 8:04 am ]
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Even though in a relationship, most girls with boyfriends want to go out together just to have fun. I think also, clubbing together is a sort of a shit test. The girl knows she will be hit on by other guys and she wants to know how you stand up in this case. Remember, she knows you are socially capable (some of you even picked her up in a club or bar) but from time to time she wants that to be confirmed, because she enjoys seeing her guy displaying social intelligence now and then. She wants you to AMOG others; she will puts you in this situation (uncounciously) and she wants you to demonstrate your alpha characteristics so now and then, over and over again. Remember also that (hot) women love attention, it's a means of self-validation, but this is alright. You just need to play along a little bit. In most cases it will be sufficient if you just open a set from time to time and have a short social conversation with strangers (often women). Compared to sarging, opening sets in this case should be a piece of cake as you are already preselected and unneady.

What you see often is that when a guys GF is being hit on by somebody else in the club, the inner wuss in her BF pops up. Jealousy and insecurity comes in. Now, you guys who believe that it does not have to do anything with jealousy and insecurity, you are wrong. You are just somewhat lazy to show off some social skills because you are thinking it is not necessary as I have a GF. Believe me it is necessary and, most importantly, it will do wonders for your LTR. These social skills is what her attracted to you in the first place. Don't deprive your self of these skills and her of her attraction to you. Keep it spicy. Once in a while, get that sarging spirit up (however, moderately) when you are out clubbing with your GF. This is a huge turn on to her, just do not exaggerate. I think this all is part of maintaining a healthy and interesting relationship.
Author:  arnolfo [ Wed Aug 12, 2009 11:04 am ]
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for me go clubbing with my girlfriend is the worse thing to do.
i don't have problem to admit that you never feel secure that your girlfriend can do something when other guys come to her.
except this is a big stress anyway
people always come to her and often are aggressive so you have to argue sometimes.
what about if someone grab the ass of your girl?
this sometime happen
no point to go club with the girl in my opinion
Author:  aflifer [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Not a fan of going to Bars and Clubs with g/f
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One thing that I just don't like doing when I'm in a relationship is going to a bar or club with my g/f. It's not that I'm insecure of other guys or anything but it just seems the fun has been taken out of it when you go with a girlfriend. I think it's because for so long I chose to be single and enjoyed the adventure of trying to pick up other woman but now that I'm in a relationship the fun of going to a bar/club is not as high as it used to be. When I was single I LOVED going to bars and night clubs because the potential to meet a new woman was always there but now I'm just kind of like..meh. Has anyone else ever felt this way?
you know what they say.... don't take sand to the beach
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