Quote: To me, anyway, the following is a list not only of a perfect GF but a perfect person.
Highly intelligent - not necessarily academically or scientifically so, just means she has to be a thoughtful, self-aware person
Athletic body type - works out, eats healthily
Ambitious (but not a ruthless gold digger)
Non-religious - Spiritual is fine, belief in a higher being is fine, but a follower of an institutionalised religion, no way
Free thinker
An individual - not a crowd follower - not petrified of what other peope will think or say
Hard to get - all your canned PUA routines and bullshit have little to no effect
Impossible to manipulate - She will call you on your bullshit and can detect a slimy guy a mile away
Good intuition
Not insecure or neurotic
Enough self-confidence to be single (not always tied to a guy, not afraid to do her own thing)
Not boastful - boasting just makes the boaster look foolish and un-talented and insecure (unless you're literally godlike, like, say, Ali was)
Strong, quiet inner confidence
Quietly dignified
Yeah I agree with all of that. The only one that is debateable is:
Enough self-confidence to be single (not always tied to a guy, not afraid to do her own thing)
Of course noone wats a clingy girlfriend and self-confidence to be single isn't necessarily a bad things, however it can have its bad points in my opinion.
A sense of reliance on the boyfriend I reckon can be a healthy thing for a relationship, if she is too much of an individual it could lead to her being a tad more emotionally distant than her boyfriend, thus that notion of "one" isn't omnipresent; which I think it should be.
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