PUA Forum :: Telling your girlfriend you love her?

Usually, PUA's advise us to wait until she says it first, but I think it is all about delivery. I told a girl "I love you" recently, and she got silent, another minute into the conversation she blurted out the most heartfelt "I love you" I ever heard.

If you think she loves you, and you WANT to tell her, I think you should wait for a really "special" moment, and tell her then.

And I don't think love is just a word, I'm in pickup for love. Sometimes pua's avoid it, and they should, I know i'll get hurt a lot more than the rest of us, but I know I'll have the happiest moments too.

Er, but first, in your opinion, why didn't she say she loved you yet? You think it is about you, maybe she is afraid you'll lose interest? You think it is in her personality, maybe she lets guys tell her first so she feels safe?

Author:	dark one [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 4:30 pm ]
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How does a pua tell his gf he loves her? I have known my gf for about 7 months but we have been an offical couple 3...I have never loved a women before and I thought love was just a word until recently when I took my gf to meet my whole family and then I knew 100% I love this women. My question is how do you tell a girl you love her PUA style? I mean If you arnt sure If she feels the same way...Im almost positive she does but you never know....

Author:	WillDream [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 5:04 pm ]
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Usually, PUA's advise us to wait until she says it first, but I think it is all about delivery. I told a girl "I love you" recently, and she got silent, another minute into the conversation she blurted out the most heartfelt "I love you" I ever heard. If you think she loves you, and you WANT to tell her, I think you should wait for a really "special" moment, and tell her then. And I don't think love is just a word, I'm in pickup for love. Sometimes pua's avoid it, and they should, I know i'll get hurt a lot more than the rest of us, but I know I'll have the happiest moments too. Er, but first, in your opinion, why didn't she say she loved you yet? You think it is about you, maybe she is afraid you'll lose interest? You think it is in her personality, maybe she lets guys tell her first so she feels safe?

Author:	dark one [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:21 pm ]
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Quote: Usually, PUA's advise us to wait until she says it first, but I think it is all about delivery. I told a girl "I love you" recently, and she got silent, another minute into the conversation she blurted out the most heartfelt "I love you" I ever heard. If you think she loves you, and you WANT to tell her, I think you should wait for a really "special" moment, and tell her then. And I don't think love is just a word, I'm in pickup for love. Sometimes pua's avoid it, and they should, I know i'll get hurt a lot more than the rest of us, but I know I'll have the happiest moments too. Er, but first, in your opinion, why didn't she say she loved you yet? You think it is about you, maybe she is afraid you'll lose interest? You think it is in her personality, maybe she lets guys tell her first so she feels safe? She is a shy person, and doesnt trust easy at all so I think she loves me but wont say it until I tell her I love her....she is the kind of person who is afraid of what people think when she talks so she will just keep silent....perhaps I am wrong though and she doesnt love me? the way I see is If I tell her I love her and she gets freaked out then she isint the kind of women I would want to be with you know? I mean she has met my family, and I have met hers so its not like we just met. Im just not sure how to tell her...I want her to know Im not just saying it because I feel I have to but because I honestly love her. I also am not sure what Im going to do if she doesnt say any thing....which is very possible.

Author:	WillDream [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:42 pm ]
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Is she so shy that she never opens up her feelings to you? But you are right, if she freaks out then it wasn't love on her part, sometimes guys commit the mistake of telling girls "i love you" in hopes they begin to love them back or some shit like that. But I think you're pretty safe if she feels strongly for you, I mean, there is a time when feelings are so deep that part of the game becomes obsolete, and feelings begin to matter more. I'm not that experienced, but I've ruined something with a girl because I was so worried of giving her the power that she ended up getting away because she thought I felt nothing. So, when you have a really romantic moment, when you are sure she is really in love, like, after you gave her 30 orgasms in a hill overlooking the city (lulz)... Or something like that, tell her. Just don't tell her out of nowhere, in your relationship case, I think it will be an important moment. Make it matter.

Author:	dark one [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:59 pm ]
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yeah well I told her I have to tell her somthing haha she asked if I cheated on her and I was told her no and then she told asked me what it was and it was going to really bug her all day....we are hanging out tonight so I think Im just gunna do somthing really romantic and then tell her.

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Author:	dark one [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 8:13 pm ]
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Yes she is shy....she has opened up alot to me though in the last month! when we first started dating she wouldnt tell me any thing but now she tells me almost every thing. The only thing the bugs me is that I know somtimes she doesnt like talking about things that upset her or her problems because I can tell she is not very trusting.

Author:	WillDream [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 8:24 pm ]
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Ehe, good luck then. Tell me how it went later. Oh, be romantic, but in an interesting way. Don't buy her gifts or something (unless it's a thoughtful gift, not an expensive i-want-to-impress-you one.) Good luck man*

Author:	alvarado [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 11:00 pm ]
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yeah I think she loves you y? Because she's bein with you 4 munths when she can let u go. She met ur famaly? When that's a big step 4 a girl. And if u had sex then ther u go.( u tell her but make it special say it after a romantic diner? After sex that 1 realy helps!

Author:	RVAIS [ Sat Jul 04, 2009 6:03 am ]
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when should you tell a girl you love her? -never -when the next olympics tell her you hate! Tell her anything but you love her! Its the kiss of death!!!

Author:	Angelz [ Sat Jul 04, 2009 10:06 pm ]
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its all about how you say it... say it like you mean it and it will have a big impact. I remeber telling my gf twise before that I loved her... but without thinking about how am saying it...but when i did she really felt it.

Author:	simon1989x [ Mon Jul 06, 2009 8:42 pm ]
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well my gf is really shy aswell. When we first did something sexual I got her to tell me that she loved me. Emotions like that in & around sex are a buzz for girls. When having sex you could go dominant and say "How much do you like me now my cock is inside you" they usually go all defensive and say "I'v always liked you" fuck her harder, "Not good enough, how much do you like me" Repeat this, it might take a while, took me 3-4 repetitions. I guess its best to do this if your pretty sure that she does have strong feelings for you.

Author:	Sexcellent [ Tue Jul 07, 2009 12:05 am ]
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i think it is a good idea to hold back on that inner afc, and wait for her to say it. however, usually a girl should be following your lead in the relationship. in this case, you have to be the one who says it first. what you dont want is to say it first, when she is really controlling where the relationship goes. this could make you look very needy.

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