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| Author: | SummerNight [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | NEED HELP WITH BEING DUMPED FAST |
Hi all, here is the story. I have been dating a girl for month and everything was super until yesterday she said she wants to dump me. Reason is that she saw a boy she had a huge crush few months ago and then she thought that she likes me but she likes him more. Even thow the boy doesn't like her. She is dumping me because she likes him more but she will not even get him. So plz, what to do, is it possible to save? I'm gonna meet her in 3 hours. Fast responce would be good. Thank you. |
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| Author: | Rusty P Bucket [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 6:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: NEED HELP WITH BEING DUMPED FAST |
Quote: Hi all, here is the story. I have been dating a girl for month and everything was super until yesterday she said she wants to dump me. Reason is that she saw a boy she had a huge crush few months ago and then she thought that she likes me but she likes him more. Even thow the boy doesn't like her. She is dumping me because she likes him more but she will not even get him. So plz, what to do, is it possible to save?
Move on do you want to be ina relationship knowing you are her 2nd choice?
I'm gonna meet her in 3 hours. Fast responce would be good. Thank you. |
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| Author: | Eden_endearment [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 10:22 am ] |
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If you really want her, ignore her. Act as if you don't like her anymore, and she'll come running back. Because if you think about it, that's what the other guy is doing, right? He doesn't like her. Girls are in it for the chase. She's gotten too comfortable around you, and she knows that you like her- but it's different with the other guy, it's more exciting. That's what she wants. I think either way, move on; she'll probably try to come back when she realises you don't want her anymore; girls are weird like that. Best of luck~ |
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| Author: | SummerNight [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 2:44 pm ] |
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Should it be better to not communicate with her at all. Not communicate with her but her friends...so she can see how cool I am if her friends like me. Or should I be "friend" to her and slowly make things sexual again? We broke up but I didn't do drama and said that we can be friends and left friendly and stuff. Which of those three are best options. Well...one of her best friends is also cute, should I try to seduce her? Maybe somethings works out with that girl or if not then maybe she shall start to like me more if she sees that her friend likes me? |
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| Author: | AboveAverage [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 12:28 pm ] |
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Hey man, not long dumped from a 6 year LTR, so I can relate to many of the things ITT. First off, not communicating with her in any way is exactly what you have to do. Don't try the friends thing at all. She will start to think she can have her cake and eat it too, that's what my GF wanted. You gotta just move on as prev posters have said, and let her see you're moving on. Speaking to her mates is great, cos it will get back to her that you are out partying or whatever, having a good time and getting on with life. I used my GF's sisters for that. Also things like Facebook are great for that too. Post some photos of a wild night out with your mates, get them to comment about how great it was, that kinda thing. I wouldn't try it on with one of her friends, not sure how that would go down it might totally piss her off. You don't want to piss her off, just make her start thinking about you and wondering what you are up to, which will then lead to her missing you. Also her mate may well blow you out anyway cos you were with one of her pals. I went to pieces a bit when I got dumped and for 2-3 weeks just did every wrong thing in the book. Time and space are the key words when you get dumped, you have to back right off and give her what she thinks she wants - no more you. Just accept the relationship is over. Once I got a grip and did this, told her we could never be friends and I could never see her again, then started going out, having fun, getting on with my life and not contacting her at all....well guess who came crawling back lol. She is missing me and thinking about me and contacting me. She wants to start seeing each other again and taking it slowly. Thing is now I am really starting to enjoy being single again and not even sure if I want her back anymore lol |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 1:11 pm ] |
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Screw her if your her 2nd choice don't communicate with her or try and get her back. Move on, she may come crawling back if thats the case (I will get slated for this) just use her for sex, tell her it if you feel the need but yar she is not relationship material so just screw her every so often because you can and she will probably be trying to get you back. Damn I can be an evil little shit at times, ah well I think she earned it. |
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| Author: | Conker [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 1:22 pm ] |
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Don't hit on her friends. You will get a name for being desperate enough to try that because you can't find other girls. It's low. If her friend accepted your advances, she'd be low too. Of course if there was some AMAZINGLY strong connection there that was almost unnavoidable, that would be an exception to the rule. |
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