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Author:  Geminias [ Thu May 28, 2009 3:15 am ]
Post subject:  slowing down

Has anyone had trouble with entering into a steady relationship after their PUA lifestyle?

I closed a recent set after five hours, and she is great. Very attractive, intelligent and I can talk to her. I know she'd be interested in going steady, I just can't bring myself to enter into anything more committed. And I would like to do so because i've noticed that a lot of PUA's i know end up alone as they get older.

Author:  Havik [ Thu May 28, 2009 3:39 am ]
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This sounds like you're becoming a social robot. When you begin the Venusian arts, you indulge yourself with various women and test your skills whenever you can because you can. And who wouldn't? It is an amazing and fantastic skill that will help you in every aspect of your life. The PUA's you're referring to have let this become their entire life. They live, eat, sleep, and breath pick-up. They have to go out every night and get a new girl to hook-up with, never settling down. This is all well and good, and I am in no way bashing this kind of lifestyle, but they will more than likely pass up numerous women that meet their criteria just because they want quantity over quality. Pick-up was meant for men to be able to attract the woman (or in some cases, women) of our dreams and not let a low confidence get in the way. So if you do not want this to happen, take some time to think about what exactly you want. And remember no criteria is too crazy because you're a PUA! Never settle for anything but what you really want, and you will always be happy. So go out, look for women who meet that criteria. And remember to keep an open mind. You might find something that you never even knew you wanted. Good luck my friend.

Havik

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