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| Author: | simon1989x [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 1:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A little help please |
Ok well, Il try and cut to the chase here. My friend's girlfriend has been trying to set me up with her friend for the last 2 weeks or so. I asked her out last week, on the first date we just went to the mall did some shopping and then watched a film after. Last night me, my friend, his gf and the one im trying to get with went bowling together. Overall it went pretty well, Im usually quite shy and my mind has a habbit of going blank. I started slowly on the Kino, she seemed to like it, and I noticed she was walking closer to me when I did takeaways. Also had some heavy kino when we were sat down, she was leaning into me, etc. My friend was telling me that I should kiss her at the end of the night. I'v never kissed a girl before so I was a bit nervous about it and I think it showed at the end of the night. We left the bowling alley, my friend kissed his gf goodnight, so I quickly grabbed my girl, kissed her on the cheek, stared at her for a while after, cant remember where I was looking tbh, probably lips, as the kiss was playing on my mind. She seemed pretty distant at this stage and I think felt a bit creeped out about me not being more assertive and decisive in the moment. She replied with "What" in a worried tone of voice (Or so it seemed, I wasn't thinking straight) Cant remember what I did, think I replied with "nothing" then I kissed her on the cheek and she did the same. I felt like crap after as I quite like her, even though this was only our second date. Anyway 5 minutes later she sent me a text saying "Thanks for tonight, I had a really good time. Hope you did too? xx" I replied saying I had a good time too and we should do something soon, she replied saying we should definately meet up again. I was a bit worried because I thought I blown it again, my friend then told me that shes never kissed anyone before or anything like that (Idk why as she is v pretty). My friends GF text my friend saying that I needed to be more confident, I dont know whether these are the other girls words or not. I felt like crap after my friend read the text out to me as confidence is something Iv struggled with alot over the last few years and have only recently become more confident/active in my dating life. Im not really sure what to do next, I want to make the dates fun and exciting but im generally quite quiet vocally, although I come across confident in my body-language,etc. Does it sound like she likes me, and wants to move the relationship to the next level? Im a bit confused right now, Iv felt like texting her to arrange another date, but iv delayed it until my head is straight. |
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| Author: | Roy Hobbs [ Mon Apr 27, 2009 3:36 pm ] |
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Work on your inner game, Simon. You're investing far too much of your self-esteem into whether or not this chick likes you. You don't think women worry about whether or not we like them? Let go of any doubts you had about that night. Read up on inner game and improve your confidence. A strong inner game will lead to strong outer game. |
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| Author: | Saint Jimmy [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 7:21 am ] |
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I think youre overanalyzing things here and looking for an approval try to work on your inner game youre body language was good (looking at her lips), but you have to take action. Dont be afraid to crash and burn! also a good tip: dont wait to kiss a girl until the goodnight kiss. It looks like you have to do it. Do it during the date, when she's not expecting it |
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