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| Author: | Incubus69 [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 2:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Can a man be just friends with a girl |
I think this is where the confusing part comes. I feel that when a guy sees a hot girl that he would want to get in her pants. Dan, is tall dark haired man. Lengthy, geeky and has a nervous laugh some times. His body language isn't really so attractive and his walk he calls cool looks like a duck walking. I had a talk with him and was joking around with him, "So you practicing or what?" He asked me what do you mean? I said you know - pick up lines. Knowing they never work and that true meaningful Openers do. He told me at the moment he's not looking. However, I think I figured out my root of my problem - I feel like if a girl pays attention to a guy more than me she wants to jump his bones. Now they're staff of course and they hopefully work on a professional level. You know? I noticed when I have that thought I get anxious and when it builds up then I get angry. I know that a PUA does control his energy state but sometimes the worry of her liking Dan for instance bugs me to hell. Katie has a boyfriend, she mentioned him and seems to like him. I'm not really sure if it's possibly that a woman can love only one guy. Today a group of staff and clients played Battle of the sexes. Fun game and i got most of the answers right. I was observing Katies body language. I notice when dan moved closer to pass out cards she was throbbing her foot up and down really fast and when he was out of her space she was calmly shaking it. Her arms were cross with on hand holding on her elbow. Does this signify nervousness, or disguise? I also recognize that she looked at me periodically which I don't get. I do like this girl but I can't date her which sucks because she's a staff and can't cross boundaries with a client. I talk to her and joke around with her. Today she was trying to run me over with the vaccum cleaner and I said, "Whoa watch out there! Do you run over other people too?" She laughed and said, "Why yes I do!" Sometimes I have thoughts of a girl likes one guy better. I now some girls that give me attention and I know this may do with my frame. Also, I know that I shouldn't be running into this problem. Is there anyway I can ease my anxiety or thoughts about girls liking someone better than me? I do recognize that I am cute, have a sense of humor, intelligent, respectful and have self respect. Dan is more of a shy type, nerdy type, very polite to women and lets them walk first in line, etc.. Let me know what you think on her body language and how to ease my crazy thoughts i have time to time. Thanks! |
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