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Author:  Luca_J [ Sun Mar 15, 2009 1:28 am ]
Post subject:  How to warm up my GF of 1 and a bit weeks lol
Hi guys look im new to this relationship thing and I wanna ask you guys out there who know about relationships more than I do, as I can advise you on things like mid game which I know very well ;)

Well i've beeen with her a week, shes 16 im 17 and basically I wanna know how I can get to the stage with her where we're all soppy sayin we love each other and kissing and cuddling, NOT where I have to always go for the kiss, sometimes where she does.

I mean today I was at hers and she doesnt look at me much when we speak (i think its a confidence thing) but anyway when we stare at each other she'll break the tension by insulting me in a playful way, like "your such a loser you know" or something along those lines. I just want her to be a bit more 'touchy feely' if you understand? Like not afraid to hug and kiss me.

Maybe its just me expecting too much in the relationship a week on lol but this is my first serious relationship.

Excuse any bullshit I may have come out with lol but you know what its like when you just wanna know something.

THANKS FELLAS :D
Author:  KristallNachte [ Sun Mar 15, 2009 1:36 am ]
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evolution phase shift
Author:  IcemanPUA [ Sun Mar 15, 2009 3:14 am ]
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Whenever you're curious about something like this, just remember one of the golden rules of pick-up: men lead, women follow. If you want your relationship to go in a certain direction, steer it that way. Start cuddling with her, starting saying the types of things to her that you want her to say to you. Lead by example, and trust me, soon enough you'll have the relationship that you desire :)
Author:  scott89 [ Sun Mar 15, 2009 4:05 am ]
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It's still early days yet, you want to keep her on her toes still and keep things interesting. At the top of your list of priorities should be remaining the same person that she became attracted to and not to relax. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean that you're out of the woods, too many people end up losing the girl after 2-3 weeks purely because they stopped being the same attractive person.

This soppy shit isn't something that you push for and can switch on and off, it comes with being entirely comfortable with and around each other. Telling her you love her or even worse asking her to tell you the same is a big no go, especially this early on, that is something that developes over a long time.

As for wanting her to innitiate the physical contact... All girls are different, some are more comfortable to do this than others and again is something that developes with time. If she seems reluctant then as IcemanPUA has said you will have to lead the way for a while. It's important to ensure that physical contact is going on otherwise you'll just end up with a friendship. And remember, you're both still only 16/17 (yeah may sound weird coming from a 19 year old) serious relationships and commitments aren't in the cards for a lot of people at this age, you both have a lot of other fun things to do, you don't need to monopolise each other's time.
Author:  Luca_J [ Sun Mar 15, 2009 8:58 am ]
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Very true guys, I just wanted to clear that up to make sure I wasn't losing the plot lol..

We need to talk about sex with each other and I want to tell her that we need to wait for the right time and we shouldn't plan it, it will happen on its own and we shouldn't rush things..

this puts me in the driving seat basically and I say when it happens.. what do you guys think?
Author:  Luca_J [ Sun Mar 15, 2009 1:41 pm ]
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Anyone?
Author:  IcemanPUA [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 2:29 am ]
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I think you need to stop viewing everything you say and do with her as a tactic. Just be honest with her. If you don't think you two are ready to have sex yet, then tell her that. If you think that you are, then begin your "seduction phase" as MM followers would say. Stop thinking about how you can trick her or w/e and just start doing what it is that you really wanna do. If you want something, go and get it.
Author:  T8SIG92 [ Mon Mar 16, 2009 10:44 am ]
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when you say youve been with her a week, do you mean you have only know her for a week, or became official "boyfriend and girlfriend" a week ago?

if you just met her a week ago, dude u gotta chill and give it time. its only been a week.

if you have known her more than a week, shes probably just nervous cause she likes you. i used to do those same things in my first relationships when i was young. just try to make her feel comfortable, she'll come around

are you her first boyfriend?
Author:  Luca_J [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 4:26 pm ]
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Hi Dan.. yeahh I understand, i've known her since October but we only just recently started PROPERLY seeing each other about 4/5 weeks ago, and yeah we only just started calling it offical a week ago. Well she had her last BF about a year and a bit ago and she was with him for about a year and a half.. Long time i know :O
Author:  T8SIG92 [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 6:56 pm ]
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well thats not good. she needs to warm up to you quick. you deserve it
Author:  T8SIG92 [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 6:43 pm ]
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so whatever happened?
Author:  Luca_J [ Thu Mar 26, 2009 7:04 am ]
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Was round there the night you posted your comment actually, yeahh she has warmed up a bit, it takes time I guess. Now to get the sex outta the way lol ;) I mean I text her friday night when i was pissed sayin i was really horney lmao as a joke obvs, she was like "period:(" haha too much information, anyways I was like well we're not ready anyways, I'll decide ;) and she replied well maybe your not ready but I am.

To cut a long story short I was round there tuesday night and we're on the bed messing about and I was like I cba for sex tonight and she laughed and said he said we was having it anyway? I just laughed..

I get the feeling maybe she might put up some LMR. Like sometimes when I go for a kiss she'll pull away deliberately or maybe she'll kiss me but she wont do the whole tounges thing :roll:

Apart from that she texts me ALL the time etc etc, shes pretty keen but thats where shes got me is in the bedrooom
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