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Author:  Eharpaz [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 12:32 am ]
Post subject:  Respect

I was just wondering what kinds of things your girls get away with before you just feel like its too much! Im talking about in public if they are just ridiculously drunk and all over the place. Boobs poppin out and all that. I only ask cuz something like this happened to me when i went out witih my girl the other night. How would you handle this?
Even if you have an example of other things that may bother you, how do you handle jealousy or things that you DONT like that your girl does. I dont think its good to call her out on it, so im not sure how to go about it.

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Author:  jsquared [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 1:01 pm ]
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See this is where Relationships and Pickup really begin to differ. Pickup would say you shouldn't care, but the fact of the matter is an emotional relationship is rooted in your ability to care.

When it comes to thing "you don't like". The best way to go about this is to be completely upfront with your girl. Tell her you don't like what she's doing, but you aren't going to "make" her doing anything either. Its like you labeled the thread a display of respect.

If such things continue and you don't like it then, you'll just have to breakup. No reason to presist in something that you don't like.

Author:  nightrider767 [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 2:26 pm ]
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Interesting question.

SOunds like your lady basically got loaded and put on quite the show. Not great, but it does happen. That's fine, we all mess up. Fact is, anytime we're really having fun, we're going to be pushing the edge. So it's normal to occassionally exceed it on occassion, which is fine.

What is not fine is if this is an ongoing thing. If your old lady is gonna be swinging off the chandeliers everytime she gets some booze in her I'd walk. Or if she's one of those chicks who likes to get real decadent and test your jealousy level for fun, same shit.

No time for bs games.

Author:  Eharpaz [ Mon Mar 09, 2009 3:51 am ]
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Yeah you bring up some good points. Do any of your girls have a good guy friend that they text a lot, sometimes i get worried about shit like that.. My girl is always texting random guys, it puts me on edge sometimes but i always keep my cool. I dunno if its bad that i dont approach her about things like this or its btter to seem unaffected..

Author:  Locke [ Tue Mar 10, 2009 9:10 pm ]
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sorry it took me a while to respond to your question in my thread, but please refrain from double posting.

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