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Author:  griff_199 [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Got a gf....But now im getting bored!!
Basicly there was this HB 9.5 (In mine and most other peoples eyes) that i used to see everywhere i went, (back when i was an AFC). I learned the game and 6 months later managed to pick her up (After multiple succesfull sarges)

The thing is....now that im with her im starting to get bored and wanting the single life and going back to sarging without having a guilty mind at the end of it.

I think i prefer the pick up and the succesfull feeling you get when you close to a full on relationship. I think i prefer the chase than the end prize.

I dont know whether to finish it with her and go out and sarge more and push myself to get 10s

To stick with it and see how it goes

Or to stay with her but still sarge and if the HB is hot enough then close.

Anyone been in any similair situations or got any advice to give?
Author:  SUB-ZERO [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:52 pm ]
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The thrill of the hunt is what makes it so much fun. I guess I kinda enjoy the persuit for the emotional ride just as much as the end prize.
Author:  wiseshoot [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 10:07 pm ]
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Or maybe now that you have gotten her, and she has the opportunity to see who you really are is scaring you. You want to dump her before she dumps you. :wink: Come on don't say that i'm wrong.
Author:  griff_199 [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 12:31 pm ]
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Or maybe now that you have gotten her, and she has the opportunity to see who you really are is scaring you. You want to dump her before she dumps you. :wink: Come on don't say that i'm wrong.
noo that really is wrong haha
weve been going out like half a year so she already knows what im like and my tru personality so its really not that haha
Author:  yoyomaa [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 4:08 pm ]
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I think we all have these feelings when we are with someone who isn't "the one". I'm in the same predicament right now.

Nice personality, good looking (hb7), and now she is giving me blow jobs (which my last gf didn't do....man, I missed those).

But this girl is without a doubt a boring girl...and she is starting to bore me.

So like everyone the question is...do i stay and have a good time, or cut her loose now since I feel like she isn't "the one".

I'm leaning towards letting her go, but man am I having a good time right now...
Author:  samex [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 6:35 pm ]
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Im a go Dr.Phil on your asses...

Why are you in the relationship if it's boring? That's like sitting in a really boring moving, just to see the ending.
You went to see the movie to have a good time, and if your not having a good time tell her..

Maybe you need to spice it up or something, she might be feeling that same way but isn't telling you.

In my opinion just mention it to her, you have nothing to lose anyways, its like your having fun or anything.

over and out
Author:  SeekNDestroy [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 2:35 pm ]
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HEy, man, its SImple. You are just not ready for a relationship. You are in "FUN MODE ON". Just end your current relationship, and one day, your heart will ask for affection. But not yet. Once you sarge the whole fucking world, like I did, then you will be ready. You will think "Damn, I feel empty".

Just have fun right, now, but If you want to sarge, then dont go in relationships, cause you will do a lot of damage to girls.

CU.
Author:  Locke [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 10:16 pm ]
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if you feel like your getting really bored and discontent being in a relationship...that simply means it isn't time to be in one. :)
Author:  yoyomaa [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 1:58 am ]
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This kind of advice is great...Thanks guys.

Anyone been in this type of situation before, what did you end up doing?

Maybe it's the pussy/AFC in me, but it seems like a wierd conversation to have.

I guess I want to be selfish...I want it all. I want to be successful at sarging, meet lots of girls, and have someone I'm comfortable with.

I know some of your responses will probably be, "Don't be a douche, just tell her the truth, tell her how you really feel". Thats fine, but if you have good advice I'll take that too.
Author:  rofer [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 2:06 am ]
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griff your an asshole....dump her before she gets a stronger emotional connection with you then.......dont get in a fucking relationship again -.-
Author:  Sexcellent [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 9:29 pm ]
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i don't want to point fingers... but if YOU are getting bored, then SHE isn't doing the best she can as you gf.

it sounds crazy, but one of the things i've learned from being PUA is that while we PUA's always try to perfect ourselves and get better at what we do, sometimes girls aren't going to do the same. its a shame really, cause they are going to lose the high value guys they want.

i know i'll sound like locke right now, but maybe you should talk about it with your gf in a way that she will understand but not get insulted. thats a win win situation cause if you break up, then you get single life back; and if you stay together, she'll work harder to make things exciting for you.
Author:  Locke [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 5:09 am ]
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i don't want to point fingers... but if YOU are getting bored, then SHE isn't doing the best she can as you gf.

it sounds crazy, but one of the things i've learned from being PUA is that while we PUA's always try to perfect ourselves and get better at what we do, sometimes girls aren't going to do the same. its a shame really, cause they are going to lose the high value guys they want.

i know i'll sound like locke right now, but maybe you should talk about it with your gf in a way that she will understand but not get insulted. thats a win win situation cause if you break up, then you get single life back; and if you stay together, she'll work harder to make things exciting for you.

hahahaha. On the money kind sir. Is sounding like me such a bad thing?? :)

Very very good advice. If you want a future, you have to continuously work on your foundation. And you can't do that unless everyone knows there is a crack.
Author:  Captn [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 5:24 am ]
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I actually just went through this with my last girlfriend, she was a nice girl, probably about a high 7, had a great personality and we did fun stuff every now and then, but she had no DEPTH, we never had really meaningful relationships, and maybe thats partly my fault, I was a little bitch about things though, and was lucky enough to find an excuse to end the relationship (she spent the whole day of Saturday with her ex) I took the oppurtunity and ran with it, and because of it I fought the most exhausting and emotionally filled break up in the world, she just wouldn't let up, it was . . . EPIC. The only thing that got me through it was my extreme determination to be single again, a lesser man would have caved and gone back to the relationship. So. . . that's my two cents worth, just warning you if you DO break up, then be prepared for the most intense word jousting of a life time (if you want to keep her feelings intact, if not, well have at it. thats what made it so difficult for me, since she was such a nice girl, I wanted to put her down easy.)
Author:  yoyomaa [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 2:25 am ]
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That went easier then expected.

Like I said above I was ready to get rid of the girl and finally did it. I sort of annoyed her by working through valentines weekend and then let her know tonight. Once I finally let her know she said "Thanks for letting me know", then got off the phone quickly after that.

Now I can go back and keep my game up. I gotta admit I've felt a little guilty gaming girls the past couple weeks.

Now I'm all in - hoping I can start to up my game a little bit. I'm decent at opening and talking (not awesome, but it's improving). I'm horrible at transitions and closing.
Author:  Sexcellent [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 7:29 pm ]
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That went easier then expected.

Like I said above I was ready to get rid of the girl and finally did it. I sort of annoyed her by working through valentines weekend and then let her know tonight. Once I finally let her know she said "Thanks for letting me know", then got off the phone quickly after that.

Now I can go back and keep my game up. I gotta admit I've felt a little guilty gaming girls the past couple weeks.

Now I'm all in - hoping I can start to up my game a little bit. I'm decent at opening and talking (not awesome, but it's improving). I'm horrible at transitions and closing.
good to hear
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